I know that Jessica Alba had a kid but I really think classifying her as a MILF is just sorta missing the plot entirely. She’s as hot as she’s ever been and she still looks young. The draw of the MILF is that she looks like a hot older lady, Jessica Alba, while hot, doesn’t look old enough to be your best buddy’s mom unless your best buddy is two years old.
I concur that a MILF is not just any woman who’s had a child. A MILF is a woman who is old enough to be your mother. As a ballpark figure, a MILF is 15 to 40 years older than you. Older than that and she’s entering GILF territory.
That’s definitely too restrictive, and subjective. I understand that different people have different feelings about different people, but it shouldn’t vary just because the person saying it is in a different age bracket.
If it’s not restrictive then what’s the point of the discussion?
Jessica Alba is nine years younger than me and at the height of her feminine beauty, which is very high indeed. There’s nothing interesting about me saying “I’d like to screw Jessica Alba” because it goes without saying that any straight male would want to. It’s more interesting to ask me what women I’d screw who’re at least 15-20 years older than me.
IMNSHO, saying that it is someone of your mother’s generation (and usually used by a person younger than me) separates it from simply ‘mature’, which is in my current age bracket.
Like Lanzy, I’m not allowed any.
If I were, my list of freebies would be Moon Bloodgood, Dichen Lachman, Sofía Vergara. I’m not aware of any 65+ year old who would make my list (unless it is for $$$).
It’s relative to your own age as well. The rule as I see it is she’s got to be old enough to be your mom. Thus, a 40-year-old with a teenage kid doesn’t count unless you yourself are a teenage kid. And if you’re 40, a hot 20-year-old with a baby is absolutely not a MILF!!!
As for my list of “freebies”:
Halle Berry
Scarlett Johanssen
Beyonce
Sofia Vergara
Mila Kunis
In the interest of fairness, my wife has a list too; it includes Ryan Reynolds, Jason Bateman, Jason Segal, and I’m not sure who else. We both keep changing them.
What would be the point of the whole MILF concept if someone with an infant qualifies? All that means, age-wise, is that they’re old enough to reproduce, and most folks are only attracted to people old enough to reproduce, anyway.
I don’t have an SO, but if I did, my “list” would probably consist mostly of fictional characters. Laugh if you like, but I figure my chances of getting it on with Elastigirl or Dr. Susan Calvin are approximately the same as the OP’s chances with Eva Mendes.