Thank you, lezlers! What an interesting research project. too. Your results don’t surprise me either. Think about what TV and movies do with visuals today. If a man or woman is smoking? Chances are, they’re eeevill!
But MaxtheVool makes a good point too: “Hot” and “nice” aren’t mutually exclusive. I tried to make that point with my Dear Hubby reference (and how embarrassed is he going to be when he reads this thread?!). Sadly, I’ve not read The Golden Compass, which, I’m sure, lowers my “hotness” quota. Sigh. I’ll bet Dear Hubby has . . . alas.
I just started going out with a girl who is both really nice and smokin’ hot.
I got nothing else to add to the thread, really. Just braggin’.
I do not know. I am a nice woman (not girl) but does anyone ask me out?
Nope, not for 9 years have I even been asked.
That sucks. Might I suggest that you sound a little uptight?
Hmm…I’m not even sure if I’m considered one of those “nice” women. I’m too quiet, polite and very shy. My friends consider me “nice”. No, I don’t have a boyfriend or a fiance or anything like that.
Unfortunately, a “nice” person like me only attracts freaks since I’m dealing with my third stalker. So in my mind, there aren’t any “nice” men around.
That’s right!
He said:
I wasn’t particularly offended by it - hell, I’m the absolute antithesis of his example. I’m not sure how that can be taken as a compliment in any way, shape or form - it’s basically saying that unattractive people are only good in bed because they’re so gosh-darn grateful that someone was willing to take their ugly ass there in the first place! I hardly think that’s a compliment.
My reading comprehension is just fine, thank you:).
And Lesbia, I’m with you. I am considered a ‘nice girl’ by most, but I can cuss so well that it would make a sailor blush. Honestly, I don’t really care if others find me hot or attractive or whatever - my fiance does and that’s all that matters.
Ava
Well of course we are!
My favourite quote…
Well, I don’t understand why being grateful is insulting. I was taught that thanking a person after sex was polite and to always be grateful for effort put forth on your behalf. Nor why being enthusiastic is insulting. Maybe you have something against puppies?
And I’m female. But I’ve taken nice guys to bed. Happily married to one. Not terribly good looking either (but better looking than my first husband - he could have broken mirrors). Both have been good in bed. (I have taken a nice girl or two to bed as well, and found them enthusistic).
And the attractive guys I’ve dated, well, in my experience, there is some truth to my friends theory. Not a whole lot of effort put forth for anything but getting laid. No need to make it a “wow” experience, cause if you don’t sleep with them again, someone else will. No need to be that nice to you, cause someone else will be willing to put up with their shit. Neither grateful (as they expect sex as their due) nor enthusistic.
Every time I find a nice girl, she goes bad on me. Now I don’t even try to filter the bad ones out.
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My fiancee, who would describe herself much more harshly than I could, will be surprised to hear this. If either of us is the PDA one, it’s me.
And it ain’t a crackerjack ring on her finger, either.
Wanna go out?
No kidding. Nice pictures. Hubba, hubba, I say. 
I’ll give that a hearty “hear, hear”, while offering a few excuses why I can’t personally take you up on it…
Well, you should not just leave her out of the refrigerator… 
depends how far you want to travel, young sir.
I live near Cleveland Ohio(unfortuantely).
aw thanks.
I go by the simple philosophy, you attarct what you put out. If you are quiet and withdrawn that is the type of person you will attarct to you. If you are outgoing and loud that is the type of person you attact. In general guys are more highly sexed than woman (we have greater urges) grin. Now… a drop dead hottie comes along with sex appeal flying with every step she takes… obviously you gonna be attracted to her…
Call me a typical guy but i love beautiful sexy woman, they catch my eye and those are the ones i take down.
take down?
Do you use a tranquilizer dart?
(been watching too much Croc Hunter lately)
LOL. Different expression to their obviously… lets try this those are the ones that you manage to get some love (action) with.
Although the crocodile hunter Steve Erwin is an absolute legend!!!
Gotta love that crazy Aussie!!!