Don’t worry, Cheesesteak, there is still hope for you. You just described my boyfriend perfectly, but I still love him.
Actually, I really do appreciate his frankness and honesty. He asks for my input, and if I say, "I don’t care, " he assumes that I don’t care. Being in a relationship with him has helped me to be honest with my feelings.
Honesty is a key element to any good relationship.