Well, since childhood, I (straight female… or, well, straight/bi female) have always had a very strong attirance towards long haired boys.
As I like to question myself about everything, I tried to understand this.
I would like to have your opinion about it, about why women would have a crush on boys with long hair. (question might seem stupid, but, I’ve seen a similar kind of thread about asian girl fetish that men have, so, why would I not ask ). Question to those who love them and those who don’t.
IMHO, for me it’s about sexual/gender ambiguity. I like boys who kind of look like girls and girls who kind of look like boys. So, I prefer boys with long hair, and girls with short hair.
I’m interested too in knowing any signification/symbolism given to long hair for men. I only know about it representing virility/force in the Samson and Dalila story, but that’s all. (and maybe I’ve read somewhere else that for some muslims it could have been, letting hair and beard grow, a good thing to do, don’t remember why…)