Save your breath, women just don’t listen, Amiright?
You’re saying it was confirmation bias.
Tell me, how is it you can google hundreds of forums with thousands of opinions from women and they always say the same thing? Where did my bias enter into that?
And why would culture have an effect on biological instincts?
My own gf hasn’t told me word for word that she finds penises disgusting, but I’ve picked up on it cause once a man sent her a dick pick she was visibly enraged and revolted, telling him it looked like a piece of stool (his penis looked fine). Another time a friend of hers flashed his penis in front of her, she said she was literally going to puke and had to hold her mouth to keep it down.
Hey, he said “Many researchers show…?” Isn’t that enough for you people?!
Oh dear.
Maybe there was something else about the penisis she didn’t like, such as who they were attached to? Or maybe she was putting on a show for you, so you wouldn’t think she was enjoying looking at an other man’s penis?
I’ve never had any incline that someone else didn’t like my penis. I think some women probably think a penis can be a bit funny, and they’re right.
How does your theory cope with women who don’t want anything in return other than the sex itself? (E.g., one night stands with no strings attached.)
Oh, I am so sorry, but I don’t think I have time to Google that right now. I’ve decided instead to spend my time on conducting some real-life research on an actual man. I’m sure he won’t mind being my research subject.
And hey, maybe he’ll be so grateful that I let him do the deed, he’ll buy me some stuff! I love being a woman!
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Oh, here we go.
We’ll start with this video:
Dude, that’s a bunch of semi comedic flippant answers to some silly questions.
I know I read another research paper but I can’t find it. This one seems close enough:
According to your cite, women are more aroused by sensual images, including men and women, than of just naked pictures. It says, for example, that they respond to footage of masturbation. None of this supports your claim that women don’t find men attractive or that they think penises are ugly, it’s just saying they tend to get physically aroused by different things than men do.
Because I’m not a women, I’m not about to make any assertions about the accuracy of the study or its claims.
There is a group that lives elsewhere on the internet that self-labels as “incel”, or “involuntarily celibate” that has peculiar views about women, particularly about when they will or will not “give” men sex.
I think you overestimate how homogeneous women are in their thinking.
Er… are you aware that women enjoy sex, and can even have orgasms? Maybe they enjoy sex because it feels good? Along with other potential reasons.
You don’t think think that rape is horrible because it often comes with a physical beating/harm? Potential unwanted pregnancy? In many cultures a raped woman is outcast from society, potentially even executed - you don’t think that maybe, just maybe, that might have something to do with women finding rape horrible?
I don’t think it’s so much that women find penises disgusting as they don’t find them nearly as wonderful and fascinating as men do. Women don’t actually need a penis for sexual gratification or, since the invention of the turkey baster, even to get pregnant. Many women want a penis, in the sense of wanting to engage in sexual intercourse with a penis-possessor, because such activities can be fun, but they don’t need one. And some men find this threatening. They want women to need them, and if women don’t need them why, then, there must be some greed-based motivation (Gifts! Money! Resources! Free booze at bars!) for women to associate with them. Women couldn’t possibly want to associate with men for reasons like common interests, or a mutual hobby, or friendship because, you know, they’re women and not like real people like other men. :rolleyes:
How do these people find this board? It’s as if ignorance were counterattacking.
(And what is the “Great Debate” anyway?)
Perhaps what you should take from this is “women don’t like when men whip their dicks out in front of them uninvited”, not “women find dicks inherently repulsive and only sex men in order to get stuff from them”.
Faylasouf, describe in single words. Only the good things that come to your mind. About your mother.
[Elaine Benes] “I don’t know how you guys walk with those things.” [/Elaine Benes]
That’s enough, children. I find there to be potentially enough of a debate to stay here. As such, keep it impersonal. I may not agree with the OP, but he deserves to be heard out.
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Sure. I look forward to the companion thread, “Do men like looking at naked women?”
Riiight…
I mostly think penes look, frankly, a little funny, in the amusing sense. They don’t, truth be told, look all that attractive to me, a female woman, but they do, when used correctly, feel nice. I don’t find them repulsive, but I wouldn’t necessarily want pictures of them hung on the wall.
On the other hand, when I got flashed by a neighbour, I didn’t find that funny, I found it pretty disgusting, repulsive and threatening.
A penis attached to a guy I like, who is acting in an appropriate fashion is perfectly pleasant. Its appearance (even an unexpected appearance) is likely cause for happiness and excitement, in fact.
An unexpected penis attached to a guy I don’t know, or have no desire to engage in happy fun times with, who is acting in an inappropriate manner is quite a different thing, despite the remarkably similar appearance of the penis itself.
To use a common analogy: I enjoy eating cake, I do not enjoy being forced to eat cake. I want to choose my cake and eat it.
You know you only eat the cake to get the ice cream!
I tried to make my penis more attractive. It turns out mentioning the number of nearby parks and elementary schools was not the best route.