I went to a bachelorette party this weekend. One time, the bride-to-be gave some total stranger she met in the parking lot a pretty thorough kiss. She was rather toasty at the time, but not so much that she wouldn’t have remembered in the morning.
I did not feel this was something her groom needed to know about. I’ve only met her twice now, and I’ve known him since we were teenagers, so my loyalties lie with him, but this didn’t strike me as worth risking the dissolution of their relationship (had she been dropping her pants for someone, that would’ve been a different story).
So I kept my mouth shut, but it bothered me to have to be in that situation. I know he believes in loyalty in a relationship, and he was very angry at his mother for a long time for cheating on his dad. This strikes me as a bad sign of things to come.
Would you have told?