You shell of a person

Maybe Movie Theatre Guy is a creepy pervert maybe he’s not, don’t know- haven’t met him. Though I do think the whole hiding in the bathroom was pretty silly.

I just don’t get how a sexually active teenager suddenly becomes victimized when a choice is made to explore an older sex partner. This is a 15 year old girl asserting her sexuality and choosing her partners exploring and experimenting.

Has she been victimized in the past in a situation where she wasn’t the one making a proactive choice? Is Movie Theatre Guy manipulating her and/or inflicting mental or physical cruelty? The OP doesn’t give us any information to suggest any of that.

It is a great leap to go from “she can’t give legal consent” to “she’s completely incapable making a choice and entering into this relationship willfully and consentually.” The first statement may be true, but the second statement wasn’t true of me when I was 15, it wasn’t true of my highschool girlfriend, it wasn’t true of most of my highschool friends. Yes, it was true of some of them- and it’s true of some 20-somethings I know. Is it true of Madison? Don’t know- haven’t met her.

What I can tell from the OP is that she is sexually active by choice and has chosen to seek out a relationship with an older person. Regardless of whether or not the age difference is “creepy”, this certainly doesn’t qualify as “molestation”.

She’s only a year away from being legally able to give consent in 31 States. How does something that is a brutally damaging criminal act inflicted upon Madison 2004 suddenly become perfectly O.K. for Madison 2005? And why will it still be a brutally damaging criminal act in New York but not if she were living in Oklahoma?

  1. I cut her loose a few days ago.
  2. I’m not going to tell her parents, at the urging of her boyfriend.
  3. Speaking of which, she did some more shitty things (not going to bother elaborating), and he forgave her, now they’re back together and she’s pretending she loves him to avoid public scorn.