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Well I wasn’t going to go into details, but by “intimate” I mean having sex. I was having trouble keeping an erection and when I managed to keep one for a while, I couldn’t reach orgasm. We tried again twice tonight and the third time was the charm, but it was still difficult. It was like I wouldn’t let myself climax for some reason.
I’ll definitely check in with my doctor about the medication, for some reason that didn’t even occur to me. I have no problem climaxing by myself though, so I don’t know if that’s the problem.
I bet it’s just stress/anxiety.
Thanks guys, you really lifted my spirits.
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Almost a verbatim description of what happened when I became unvirgined.
Everyone is surprised when they suck the first time, but nobody should be. Your wedding tackle doesn’t come with a manual, so trying to use any of its functions for the first time is bound to be a lot of trial and error.
As far as the erection/lack thereof, put it down to nerves. I had much the same problem the first few times.
My grandfather wasn’t exactly a virgin when he was married… I don’t know about his ability to perform on his first time (which took part when he was 11 and I’d like to have that woman here so I could skin her slowly), but on his wedding night he couldn’t.
Nerves and alcohol, they figured. No prob. Since it wasn’t his first time, he wasn’t pleased about it, but he didn’t doubt that he’d perform sooner or later.
Next morning, he was fine… but, well, in Grandma’s words, “I was a hard virgin”… on night number 3 he ended up using his hand.
Performance anxiety is considered a primo cause for performance inability. Add some meds and it can happen. Just remember: it happened to Gramps once in 62 years of marriage (and then he got a bunch of surgeries that mean they’ve moved to, uh, other forms of entertainment. Yes, I know, I find the thought of my 90-something grandparents having sex kind of weird too, but heck, so long as they don’t post videos on the 'net or use my bed…)
[QUOTE=Nava]
My grandfather wasn’t exactly a virgin when he was married… I don’t know about his ability to perform on his first time (which took part when he was 11 and I’d like to have that woman here so I could skin her slowly), but on his wedding night he couldn’t.
Nerves and alcohol, they figured. No prob. Since it wasn’t his first time, he wasn’t pleased about it, but he didn’t doubt that he’d perform sooner or later.
Next morning, he was fine… but, well, in Grandma’s words, “I was a hard virgin”… on night number 3 he ended up using his hand.
Performance anxiety is considered a primo cause for performance inability. Add some meds and it can happen. Just remember: it happened to Gramps once in 62 years of marriage (and then he got a bunch of surgeries that mean they’ve moved to, uh, other forms of entertainment. Yes, I know, I find the thought of my 90-something grandparents having sex kind of weird too, but heck, so long as they don’t post videos on the 'net or use my bed…)
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I don’t know what’s more disturbing, that your grandpa knocked one off his first at 11 years old or that you know so much about your granparents sex life.
