Nope, I don’t go around bragging about my conquests.
I don’t generally make a habit of mentioning sex to anyone. If it comes up in the conversation, I may talk about it a little, but that’s it. Even when I first started, I never felt compelled to tell everyone.
Especially if you are having sex with squeegee. Feel free to tell anyone if you’ve had sex with me. Especially if your review is positive.
Seriously, I have definitely kissed, told, and lived to regret it. I try not to now. At least I don’t name names.
I don’t know that I have kissed and told with a bad consequence, but I do know that one girl told everyone that we hooked up. Saddly, we didn’t do as much as she said we did. The reports were all positive so I guess I don’t really have a problem with it though.
I have two children. They didn’t spring fully formed from my forehead, so they must have gotten here some other way. I’m just saying, my sex life is not for public airing.
Yes.
If you tell people every time you have sex, then when you don’t say anthing, they have to assume you’re not getting any. I prefer to remain silent and let everyone think I’m going at it so hot and heavy all the time that I’m too exhausted to talk about it.
My close friends know immediately if I had sex, just by looking at me. If I’m in a relationship (which is almost-never), I don’t bother discussing the frequency of my sex life, because I should be getting it regularly. Of course, my friends and I are the type that discuss things in vivid detail, when deemed necessary.
I don’t run around telling co-workers that I got laid, I’m not going to call my grandma and let her in on the news, but when my best friend asks me what I did last night, you can be damn sure I’m going to tell her.
I have a best friend whom I confide in, and he’s probably the only one I’d share that kind of information with (and vice-versa).
But other than that, it is far more gratifying for me to keep that kind of stuff to myself; often people don’t think I’ll have a snowball’s chance in hell with a particular woman; its satisfying enough to know how things are really going.
So do I! I’m surprised it hasn’t gotten back to you!
Dude. That was…Dude.
shakes head
:smack: Wish I’d thought of that. . .
I’m not terribly good at keeping it a secret… I mean I don’t tell coworkers and I certainly don’t tell family, but most of my close friends know when something happens. What’s the point if you can’t brag?
In high school I had a rather close group of 6 friends, never mind that those guys were all backstabbing cockblockers. Whenever one of us got laid (seldom) everyone and their uncle would know about it and the details. They all thought I lost my virginity at 17 and bugged me till the end of junior year because they thought I was the last one to lose my virginity. The truth? I lost it in 8th grade before any of them and had sex around 30 times with 2 different girls till then. Never told them since, even if I did they wouldn’t believe me. I always considered not telling anyone about that stuff as the next step to being a “player” and it really put my self-esteem and confidence at a different level. Nowadays? I might tell my best friend casually, no big deal. If it comes up as a topic I always have the best stories. I recommend it.
My lips are always sealed.
Although, if it’s clean, I will wear my “I got laid last night” T-shirt.
I have an old friend from high school who, from time to time, would check in on our respective virginities. For some reason, he stopped asking me after I started dating his sister.
HA, good one.
In high school I learned to stop telling my buds about getting laid because they would follow the poor girl around for weeks. And of course, they would inform her how I bragged about it too. :rolleyes:
Of course, darling. Now shut up and assume the position.
That just means you’re not doing it right.
Is nothing private any more? Well, yes, my personal life is. Some things are nobody else’s business.
FairyChatMom!!! I haven’t seen you around in a while. Maybe we’re just not frequenting the same threads. Anyway, it’s SO good to see you!