I came to Drexel thinking that things would be different here than they were in high school, but I appears that I am wrong. After my first week here, everyone has already formed their little cliches.
Being a shy individual, this is usually a telltale sign that I’m screwed big time. I’m not the kind of person who can just walk into someone’s room and introduce myself. I leave my door open, which is right near the elevator, but no one ever says “hi” or stops to talk.
I was hoping that at some point maybe even this year I could have some female friends so that I would have some dating options down the road, but that’s a lost cause as of right now. My dorm is the last one before the girl’s wing of the building begins, so they always pass by, but again, no one says “hi.”
And out walking the streets of Philly, all the girls I have seen so far that I was attracted to were either with their boyfriends or in cliches with numerous guys who have pretty much called dibs on them. You know how it goes.
I’m a computer science major so the amount of girls in my classes are next to nil. I don’t know what to do. I don’t drink, so the idea of a party scares me, but it might be the only place I have to go where I might have a chance at meeting someone.
If any of you can offer any insight or personal experience I would greatly appreciate it. It would be really great if maybe some shy guys could give me some of the pointers they used in finding a past or current SO. Any help would be great. I’m desperate.