Apparently **duffer’s ** Michelle is a bit more randy 
I think you’ve all been too tough on SHAKES. Bloody 'ell, he’s only trying to socialise the Nerdgirl and he’s doimg her a big favour by introducing her to a real social life. Give the bloke a break.
And all you desperate types looking to hook up with nerd-sorts via this thread - whatta-buncha-psuedo-pffisters you are!
Anyone else think that Nerdgirl and Drunken bi-girls would do a whole lot better loosing Shakes and having a party of their own.
He has already told us he can’t get girls who aren’t drunk. I am guessing he is one of those people who has to feel superior to someone to have any self-esteem. Nerdgirl should stay far far away.
Oh, I don’t know. One reason I don’t care for dating guys who’s idea of a good time is it weeds out the riff-raff.
Shakes, keep something in mind. Confidence is sexy. Arrogance isn’t. Learn the difference between the two, choose which side of the line you want to stay on, and don’t whine about the consequences of it.
For the rest of you, shyness can also be rather sexy. If a shy guy gets up the confidence to talk to me or ask me out, it tells me he must think I’m something rather special.
Sisyphus’ Stone, I have a real social life, and I enjoy it a lot more than I would the one you recommend. It suits me. Besides, I’m rather amused by the idea of someone with your handle putting down nerds. 
CJ
shit, I was gonna say flute. Got it wrong. Not the first time :smack:
Oh, and a quick reminder, the OP was talking about a “girl” not a “grrl”
Fuck, I hate when people take a word and try to be cute by making up a new spelling when it’s the same word. And pronounced the same. And means the same. Thayt’s allll. No more wrnnntting on “grrl” spllng.
SHAKES, renting out “Drunken Bi Barfly girls, Vol. I-IV” does not constitute a date.
Siege, thank you. This was EXACTLY the kind of insight I was looking for when I started this thread.
And yes I’ll admit to those of you still holding your torches that I could have articulated it little better than I did. Sorry for that; that’s just the way I fuck’n talk.
Anyway, the jist of the whole thing is, Nerd girl is a really nice girl and I only comtemplate doing ANY of this because I DO like her. Just not in a romantic sense.
Also in closing for those of you wondering how do I know she doesn’t have a social life. It’s because she carpools with some other folks at work thus I get my info from them kind of thing. And yes they could have her story totally wrong but I doubt it.
I’m still gonna ask her out for a social gathering though, I don’t care what y’all say.
Oh, and Siege in case it wasn’t implied I’ll take your post to heart.
Thats beautiful Siege.
Oh, and this little gem from the other thread linked here:
Yeah, I bet you have LOTS of friends, with a shining personality like that. Haha, your humor is just wonderful Casablanca. HurHurHur.
I bet that corner you are in is the dunce corner ya moronic drunk.
SHAKES, I think I get what you’re saying. If you want to take the girl out for dinner, great. Especially if she might need a little boost in the self-esteem department. Just don’t make her think it’s going anywhere if that isn’t your intent.
You have to very careful though. You said she comes to you and blushes. This is a red flag if you’re not interested. She may see more into a casual date than you intend to offer. As far as going out with coworkers, it’s not bad to invite her, but she may see it as you asking her out on a “date”.
If you have no interest in dating her, treat her as any other coworker. Don’t let the ego (yes, us men have egos, that’s why we are bad) lead you into being taken in by the interest of the opposite sex. It’s a boost to self-esteem to have a woman persue us, but it doesn’t mean it’s the path you want to take.
That said, if you have an interest in her, go for it. You never know where love will come from, and you may be surprised. Just lose the superiority thing you express, realize there are better people than you, and always will be (includes all us on the SDMB) and try to find what makes you happy. 10 years ago I thought I knew what I wanted, then “fate” granted me time to find my wife.
Just check the flute before buying the house. 
Chicks dig assholes.
This made me laugh out loud. EXACTLY what I was thinking but didn’t quite know how to capture the sentiment.
Yeah, sure we do. And we all just really want to be barefoot and pregnant all the time as well. :rolleyes:
Grow the fuck up.
Whoohooo! a reference to what year it is!! I remember hearing this from the crowd in audience of Jerry Springer and Rikki Lake. Great comeback!
Typical JS or RL crowd:
Trog in audience: Girl, this is 1991 and you don’t have to take that.
Trog in audience: Girl, this is 1992 and you don’t have to take that
repeat ad nauseum
I was going to write something snarky but it occurred to me that you just outed yourself as a Jerry Springer AND Rikki Lake watcher.
Oh, and just to be fair I figured I’d show this to you all just to show that I used to be somewhat of a socially inept dork myself.
That should give some of y’all a good chuckle at my expense.
Um, if you had been paying attention to any of my posts, you’d know where I live. Neither are carried on any channels up here. I was going on what the format was 11 years ago in my old city and websites.
Wait, why the hell am I explaining myself to you? :smack:
And now I must love you like I love the shirt.
OK, you got me. I didn’t pay attention to any of your posts. I was busy recklessly responding to a single obnoxious reply from you out of left field.
Sorry about that.