Dear CitizenPained

i know. it’s a shame.

(in response to kolga)

Me too… if you catch my drift.

Was CitizenPained’s ex also a Navy SEAL?

Wow, I didn’t see this thread but I posted in the other one because I’ve been following along. I’m glad that I’m not one of only a few people who noticed, I was starting to wonder what that was all about. I think markm said everything the best here. I forgot about the puppy. Seriously, a puppy. WTF.

Interesting - she edited post 227 in the “I’m so upset” thread to keep her story straight.

It originally read “Well, you guys were right. I was SO stupid. SO FUCKING STUPID. I got dumped again. He also cancelled the check he wrote to cover the abortion and the medical stuff. So I get to put off doing a root canal (again) to get rid of it. Even though I don’t want to.”

Notice the deletion of “I got dumped again” - I had been about to reply saying I didn’t even know they were back together for her to get dumped again.

And is the baby ectopic or not? Does she want to get rid of it or not?

Disbelief unsuspended, end of any sympathy from me.

Although I should probably apologise to you guys for poking that thread and waking up the draaaammmaaaaa again!

Her poor kid does not sound remotely like he’s ‘meticulously taken care of’, despite her claims in the anxiety thread.

Does your employer provide EAP services? The Employee Assistance Programs, through HR, can provide mental health help and referrals.

Just be thankful we like you too much to pit you.

Well someone else anyway. I always have an attack of inertia over these things.

I was sympathetic at first but the more she goes on and the more elaborate and hole-filled her story gets, the more I think she’s just trying to con the message board.

If this is all true, I feel very very sorry for her son. Not her, she put herself in this situation with her poor choices and uncontrollable emotions. If it’s not true, I feel very sorry that her son (if he is even real) has a sociopath for a mother. And this is coming from the child of a sociopath.

Whoops. I meant that to go in the anxiety thread.

She is so clearly a troll.

Quoted from the “Anxiety” thread…this made me :dubious: - and now you’re dealing with an “ectopic pregnancy” and “chlamydia.” Ya weren’t too worried about your vagina before…

This is pretty much what I am thinking too.

The latest is she has to pay $250 per session for therapy. That is bullshit. When I was fully employed, but my health insurance did not cover mental health, I paid $50 a session, rack rate for a VERY experienced and helpful MSW counsellor. Similarly, I do not believe for a moment she has spoken to any actual person at Planned Parenthood. I believe she looked at their website to add some credible details to her story.

And as for the whole “I am totally incapacitated by life and can barely self-care yet I am an awesome parent!” thread… one of those two things is not true.

I wouldn’t be surprised if she doesn’t even have a kid. She is a con artist looking for money.

BTW, this whole thread puts me in mind of that guy who intentionally threatened a woman for giving him what he considered a bitchy look, then had a complete flameout when everyone told him he was an asshole. Then people started to point out some contradictions in the story… the poster put the cherry on top by saying that he did not know whether the events happened or not, because he was having a psychotic break… and was never heard from again.

Damn I wish I could remember the name of that poster.

Was it the one where a woman lost her wallet, the guy found it, and then he rode the bus shooting her creepy looks and then followed her for a few blocks…and then tapped her on the shoulder (upon which she understandably freaked out) and handed her the wallet? That was incredibly creepy.

Yeah that was the one. He followed her, intending to scare her before giving back the wallet (I had forgotten the wallet detail!) . He though that was HI-larious. I don’t think anyone who experienced it could ever forget it. That and “pajama pants girl.”

FreakFreely.

It’s even creepier seeing how many people initially post about what a knee slapper it was.

And he finally decided that the whole thing was probably a figment of his imagination. I thought that that thread had happened during my time on the board, because I remember reading it, reacting to it, and (I thought) posting to it. Since the whole thing happened in 2000, I guess I imagined posting. Thanks for the link, Wilson.