Jeez… we men have the weakest egos ! I sure love using toys on my GFs… but I understand why your husband might feel “replaced”… just keep telling him how big he is… 
I’ll tell you what I’ll do. I’ll take the biggest of your toys, and shove them up his ass sideways.
Then again, you never know, he might like it.
Men who feel threatened by toys, why? You can do a lot of stuff with a toy, but you can’t really cuddle!
I think toys are wonderful!
Unless they’re sock monkeys, of course. <<shudder>>
How is using toys any different than any other form of masturbation? And given that, I guess your husband is never never never unfaithful to you by masturbating :dubious: Hmmmmmm…
My boyfriend fears them, too. (sock monkeys, not toys).
Didn’t **elfbabe ** make one not too long ago? Or am I thinking of someone else, and **elfbabe ** just told us you hated them.
I think it’s the notion of being replaced by a toy that most of us guys fear. What, with women’s lib, the automatic transmission, and MapQuest, we’re already heading to obsolesence. Battery-operated sex machines that can run for hours and hours, don’t leak or risk pregnancy, and subvert the whole awkward (for both parties) dating paradigm just accelerates the process. 
:o
See the opening scene of Roger Dodger for a more, uh, extensive and R-rated explaination of this. “Clitoruses? Clitorum? Clitorri?” :dubious:
And there isn’t a TV program about four guys sitting around talking about their sex toys.
Yet. :eek:
Stranger
No kidding. I got my husband girl on girl porn. He was fine with that. But when I confessed I also got a vibrator, he said he felt disappointed in himself because he felt like, if I got a toy, he wasn’t satisfying me enough. In fact, we had a “chat” about it just last night. Sigh I was a little upset because we had spoken about it before, and he told me he’d be willing to try using toys if I was interested. I think this is one of those things where he said that thinking I wouldn’t be interested, but in reality it makes him feel threatened.
Qadgop is a very nice man who pays for my education and general upkeep and contributed half of my genetic material. I would NEVER make a sock monkey!
:eek:
Watch the Sunday Night Sex Show and call her. She knows everything and more. It’s kind of humorous too. Never seen an old lady put a dildo in her mouth before have ya? I hadn’t either and when she did I almost died. In all honesty though she is very knowledgable and can probably help you. Or at least tell you where to get an overcomplicated dildo that is sure to give you an orgasm.
http://www.talksexwithsue.com/
http://sexshop.zonaerotica.com.mx/sexshop.php?pid=703
try that on for size…
Not for all women.
I concur - but in my particular case, it’s not so detrimental that I can’t deal with it. I have had difficulty coming to orgasm sometimes, but usually it’s not that bad. I’ve also discovered I (personally) decrease the hurdle by postponing my daily dosage. Heh.
Er. Boy, did I have your relationship mixed up. Apologies.
Mental note: **Qadgop ** & **elfbabe ** are *not * husband & wife.
Yep. Big downside. I posted a thread about it awhile back. SSRI made for extremely long sessions…Nice and dandy occasionally, but for that mid-week quickie? Uh-uh. Nope, nada, nothing. The equipment worked fine, but the trigger was just gone.
My wife can get 90% there with just me and a normal session. That last 10% takes either a lot of time and sore muscles, or a vibrator. So we usually use the toy…it works, it’s fun, and you get to shop for new gifts occasionally.
Men who are insecure about silicone and plastic toys are wimps. Get the f**k over it.
You can also try a little anal action. I little toy or a finger down there can tip the scales in a heartbeat. Read up on some of the threads on this topic and you’ll find many supporters.
-Tcat
Oh man, I’m glad this thread was started. I was thinking of starting something like it myself, actually. I’ve never orgasmed. My current boyfriend really wants to make me come. He also said something to the effect that I’m the first girl that hasn’t come with him. The sex with him is better than with my previous partner, and I really do trust this guy. I bought a vibrator back in October, but I live in a dorm and my roommate is always around, so I haven’t used it yet. Alright, alright, that’s only part of it. Also I’ve been a little nervous to use it, although I’m not sure why. I’m definitely going to check out some of those books.
I’ve got The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex. It’s a little cheesey, but it does have some helpful tips and exercises you can do to help you orgasm, first by yourself, then with your SO.