yep, you did. so let’s recap - you had a shitty day, complete w/shitty ex, and while you were generally in a pissed off mood, you littered. Some stranger made some comment in your direction re: your littering and you became, in your words “a vile bitch” about it directly to her, then came here and ranted about what a bitch she was.
“bad acts” committed against you by others : large amount by ex.
small minor thing from stranger.
“bad acts” committed by you to others: “vile bitch” verbal to stranger, come here and complain, not about the ex and all that went on, but how this absolute stranger got to you.
and the specific sequence between you and this stranger was:
you did something she found offensive.(littering, which many of us find offensive, is actually against the law, and unsanitary. done in a public place)
She commented on it (w/o swearing at you, raising her voice or commenting rudely on your personal appearances)
you swore at her, commenting on her ass etc.
the fact that your rant here focused on her vs. ‘all the other stuff’ going wrong in your life, coupled w/the fact that as I see it, just in the interaction between you and her you were in the wrong twice and in major ways, she was in the wrong once in a relatively minor way.
Of course you’re not going to make appologies for your actions. I’m not surprised at all. I would hope that at a time when you’re feeling less picked at, you may see that you behaved poorly, out of proportion to the incident, and that there’s really no defense to taking your personal anger out on some stranger.
I don’t know you at all. I see you getting more and more defensive here, and I can see why, too. If you’d come here and posted some rant about the ex chopping off your child’s hair and so on, you’d probably had more sympathy for your plight. But swearing and insulting some stranger who called you on littering won’t generate a whole lot of sympathy.
