I’m in a big dilemma my new girlfriend who we are very very close together for the last month Told Me 2 weeks into the relationship that her ex-boyfriend who they were together with for 5 years and I’ve been split up for 5 months called her and said that he wants you to go to Cuba since he bought it the trip 5 months ago when they were going out she told him yes and she is being honest with me by telling me this now she is gone for the week and I didn’t get jealous even though I wanted to be sure that I have every reason to be there sharing the same room she told me that she ordered two separate beds how should I act
You could start by using some punctuation. I gave up halfway through your paragraph-long run on sentence.
Stranger
Move on, now! Move on, fast!
But then we might take him seriously.
I’m impressed. I think you managed to avoid cluttering your post with so much as a single punctuation mark. 
ETA: …and of course, I am ninja’d once again. :smack:
We’re all rooting for you. Keep us posted on how things work out.
If you sulk and act grumpy all the time she will ask you what is wrong you say nothing but she will know it is not nothing and then she will know how much you love her and things will fix themselves as long as you never ever tell her what the problem is
I’m rooting for the ex. #sorrynotsorry
Thanks for all inputs, , now here comes the crazy thing, I was going out with a really amazing woman for the last year and then a month-and-a-half ago she is telling me that we should really start thinking about breaking up then I went out on POF met this amazing woman who as I said is in Cuba,.
We were inseparable for the month
When she told me about Cuba, I told her maybe might be better for me not to see her 1 week before Cuba trip
I was really hurt but didn’t show it, although I did get a little paranoid for a day when she told me)
So to wean my hurt etc’s I am back with my ex girlfriend
( we broke up about a month and a half ago , same time I met my so called new girlfriend )
I guess I’ll wait till next week
( she arrives home Friday)
I don’t think I should be the first to communicate with her
( she might have fallen back to her ex
I don’t think my odds are good in this case
Even though she said she misses me up until the day before she left t.o.
Can u trust her ,
It is not my fault I think I’m in love with two women
Sh###t
Funny thing is that I am with the original girlfriend who is amazing and hot yet I cant stop thinking and missing my new girlfriend who is in Cuba with her ex
She said the day after she told me about the Cuba trip that she was going to say she was going away with her girlfriends but she said one of her faults is her honesty
But can I trust this situation cuz if she does come back to my arms , I will have to make a choice
I am really not a double dipper
That sounds like you’re *both *cheating liars who deserve each other.
Have some self respect and call it off, you know what this looks like, have some dignity man.
Uh, it sounds like you’re dipping SOMETHING, that’s for sure.
You cheat on her, she cheats on you, sounds like you’re quite compatible. Does your ex- now not quite your ex- know about the Cuba-girl?
you phrased the OP wrong -
It should have read -
‘my ex-girlfriend went to Cuba with her boyfriend’
I will be telling her once my friend comes back from Cuba snd I will see if the relationship is going to continue
I think you should set up your ex and her ex and double-date. Fun times!
I’m much heartened to see that you’ve taken the challenge to include punctuation in your subsequent posts, but the applicability of it still leaves something to be desired. Might I recommend Lynne Truss’ Eats, Shoots & Leaves as a primer to improve upon your skills in written communications.
As for the woman problem, I think you should book your own trip to Cuba, show up at whatever resort they are at as if your visit was entirely incidental, hook up with a local girl with a troubled past, have wild noisy sex in the room next to your girlfriend and her ex, and then upon your return put on a puppet show of dolphins raping hapless manatees called “Submerged Consent”. I think I saw this in a movie once, or dreamed about it, or dreamed about a movie where I saw it, or something. Anyway, it’s a foolproof plan of the same sort that had American POWs escaping from under the nose of Gestapo guards with the assistance of sex videographer Bob Crane, so it’ll definitely work.
Stranger
Jesus H Christ. Johnny105, please tell me English is not your first language so I can cut you some slack and not lose complete faith in today’s educational system.
Johnny105’s join date is July 2016. He’s made a total of 4 posts on the SD and all in this thread. I’m surprised he’s made 3 replies.