I’m pretty sure I know the answer to my question; I just want to use you guys as a sounding board.
So I’ve been dating this girl for a while now. We decide to make things exclusive. Exactly one week after making things exclusive the following happens.
As a general routine on Friday nights or Saturday nights my Gf likes to go out to the pubs and be the social butterfly. I like to stay home and hang with my kids. I always tell her; when she’s through hanging out up at the bar; don’t bother calling a taxi; I’ll come pick you up. (It’s only a five minute ride)
She’s always like this idea and thought of me as a pretty sweet guy for doing so. At least that’s what she’s always told me.
So Fri-Night rolls around; she goes to the bar; I stay at home. Fri-night comes and goes and I never get a call from my GF. No biggie I think, she must have went home early because she did have to work the following Saturday. (Not her normal day to work)
Saturday afternoon rolls around, I’ve been cleaning my house all day so I decided to go to the bar for an afternoon beer.
When I pull up to the bar I notice my GF’s car outside. I think to myself “Hmm, I wonder how she got home last night.”
Anyway, I’m sitting at the bar when about twenty minutes later my GF walks in with her ex. They sat with each other. They couldn’t see me as I happened to be sitting in the corner (that’s where the video game was) behind a bunch of liquor bottles.
They weren’t making out or holding hands or anything but their body language seemed to suggest they were getting along quite nicely. This after her telling me what a jackass he was and she wants nothing to do with him.
By this point I pretty much felt like I had a brick in my stomach. So I paid my tab and left. Before I did tho’ I went up to her, kissed her on the cheeck and told her “have a nice life baby.” (OK I was being passive aggressive. cut me some slack.)
She was obviously very shocked to see me there as she turned pale white.
A couple of days later I was informed by other bar patrons there that she started to cry as soon as I left. She left me several text and voicemails since the event claiming she didn’t fuck around on me.
Her claim is that she got drunk, her ex-bf happened to show up, they got to talking and he took her back to his place but NOTHING HAPPENED. She slept on the couch with her clothes on.
From all the crying she’s done since this event took place I tend to believe she truly is sorry. But still; am I an asshole for not believing nothing took place that night?
Or if I trust her am I being stupid?