Is it a fair assumption that a gal can get “lucky” any time she wants, but guys not?
Yes rubes. A girl could easily walk up to just about any single man and say “Hey, lets go get it on.” The guy would do it 95% of the time I think. On the other hand if a guy said the same thing to a girl chances are all he would get is a fat lip.
–Donj
There was a female comic, I forget who, who I once saw on TV with the following: “Guys start a date hoping they’ll get lucky, but we already know”.
Umm, I don’t know what sex-crazed, lurid, Soap Opera towns you guys live in, but here in Little Old New York it doesn’t work like that. Most men would glare at you through their monocle and say, “maitre d’, would you please show this trollop the door?”
Besides, it depends what you consider “lucky . . .”
Depends if a girl is decent looking, I think. But, then, that doesn’t necessarily mean super-model. I’m pretty sure that most girls I know could get some just by going to a bar and asking any guy there. I don’t know any guys that could do that without getting slapped.
Cessandra
Why sex is better than religion: There are laws against forcing sex on minors who can’t think for themselves.
Wait – Flora, are you saying that you’ve never just walked up to a guy in a club and started making out? Guys in New York would find this disgusting?? Remind me never to leave the hospitable South.
Cessandra, we need more southern hospitality to move up to minneapolis.
Do people not do this in the North? I know they do it here, and in France. At least, people my age who frequent night clubs like Numbers. You just dance, wait for a guy to start dancing with you, then you both move off the floor and make out. This isn’t uncommon among my friends. Then again, all my friends are as slutty as I am, but the point was that no guy has ever been insulted by our advances.
Don’t listen to Flora. Her version of New York is far different than that of 95% of the shlumps who reside there. The rest of us, needless to say, are horny.
But facts is facts anywhere you go:
For women, getting laid is a choice.
For men, getting laid is a CHORE!
Yer pal,
Satan
Cessandra, do you ever go to Numbers on Thursday’s (Underworld)? If so, we’ve probably seen each other there and not known it. Probably just as well, my girlfriend guards me jealously 
Reminds me of a joke (but what doesn’t, really) told by another female comic:
What the difference between flirting and sexual harassment?
If the guy’s cute, it’s flirting. If he’s ugly, it’s sexual harassment.
NYC women are tough. Extremely low tolerance for bullshit. Which is why I love 'em. The Chairman said it best: If I can make it here, I’m gonna make it anywhere.
Back off, man. I’m a scientist.
Well, Cess, we’ll have to try an experiment. With Uke, Manhattan and Alpha as my bodyguards, I’ll go to, say, 21 or the Algonquin or the Yale Club; sashay up to some likely-lookimng Bo and say, “plant one on me, big boy!”
The idea that women have an easy time of getting some is probably coming from porno magazines, where all the woman are always saying ‘YES!’
But yes, men do say ‘NO’, we aren’t all mindless animals.
You know what they say… the drunker you get… the better he looks… hell if I knew for sure… i’d shave my legs more often
“Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.”
Anyone suprised?
>^,^<
KITTEN
Seven days of sex makes a whole week.
Well, Flora, yeah, if you go to 21 or the Yale Club - you’re gonna get strange looks for trying that. But (gosh I haven’t been to a club since the 80’s) if you go to any of the dance clubs off Broadway or down the Village - I used to hang, mostly, at Shout (I don’t even know if one still exists)- you have a good chance of getting a good reaction. I personally never did that because I always had a boyfriend (never had the guts), but I knew lots of others who it worked for.
Personally, I hate clubs, too noisy and crowded, I always liked goin’ up to Mickey Mantles, eat ribs, drink beer, watch the game - any game - especially a Yankee game
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In some of the downtown and village clubs, depending on the night, you probably have a better chance of gettin it if you are a guy. Some of the clubs around there, i.e. Soundfactory and Twilo, actually stop admitting females(real females) after a certain time. But, to answer the question, I’d say yes, most women are not fretting over gettin a piece on a date. We know.
so you found a girl who thinks really deep thoughts. what’s so amazing about really deep thoughts? Tori Amos
Yeah, a woman can walk into a club or bar and walk out with a man.
But quantity doesn’t equal quality…
You say “cheesy” like that’s a BAD thing.
Interesting assumption. I would agree that at this very moment, I could walk two doors down to my ex-lovers house (we’re ONLY friends now) and probably say, “fuck me now” and he would. Would I consider this “lucky”? No. He will fuck ANYTHING with a hole. Which is why we are ex and only friends. I could get laid anytime I wanted but I don’t consider that “lucky” I consider that dangerous. Not only with STD’s and pregnancy but God only knows if he’s a total whacko.
Even if I were a guy I’ll bet I would have certain women in my life that would fuck me anytime I asked. But again, I doubt I’d take them up on it. Same reasons.
I suspect that the ability to sexually acquire any guy for sex would not be much to brag about, given the condition of most guys. Meanwhile, though, it **is ** a disequilibrium. Since women can pick and choose, figuring they can select from among us, I’m inclined to let them and therefore never initiate anything overtly sexual. (I’m still pretty much of a slutty pushover if anyone approaches me, though ;)).
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