God fucking dammit this has nothing to do with prostitution. Stop trying to make “prostitution fixes it!” a thing. Prostitution does not fix men with wishful thinking acting like “no” means “maybe” or “just talk me into it”. You say you are not a tard, but you keep saying pretty tardy things. So which is it? Do you need to be talked into it?
I’m so jealous. I wish I had a catchphrase.
I dunno, if legalizing prostitution would bring an end all the terrible dates I go on with clueless, socially retarded idiots, I might be down actually.
Are you deaf? Male sexual frustration isn’t a valid social problem, and if our government legalizes prostitution at some point, it won’t be out of pity for men and their balls and lack of self control. And should I scream this in all caps? Men don’t want to pay for sex when women and others get it for free. C’mon. You know this is ridiculous.
This thread is so stupid. After I hit submit, I had a moment of “Oh shit. I just opened myself to the ‘You should have known better. Men are incapable of being rational and decent human beings because they have penii’ crowd.” I was not expecting the “Well in his defense, bitches be lyin” crowd, and I certainly didn’t expect the “If we orchestrated wider access to pussy, this wouldn’t happen” defense.
This is the SDMB in a nutshell. A lot of brilliant and/or hilarious people… and a lot of fucktards.
Yeah, it does.
She asked, "if women have to be the arbitrers of the message "what is appropriate behavior while a bunch of guys try and tell us with a straight face that when a woman says “no” what she means is “talk me into it.”
I’m saying, yes, they do need to be the arbitrers of that message.
I don’t care about flour beetles.
Well, where’s that behavior and mindset coming from? And what is the proper solution?
If you ask me, I think it’s in large part due to their sexual frustration. I’m just throwing out Prostitution as an idea to help dissolve some of that. Not the end all, be all.
Go ahead and try and talk me into it. When I say I’m not a tard, that means I’m not a tard.
Yeah. You’re a tard.
Fascinating. I’ll give you a big hint: there’s this other thing you’ve been babbling on about in this thread that no one gives a shit about either.
No, it’s not. I agree. But, that doesn’t matter because in reality it pushes men to do crazy things. In an ideal world, people would realize this and act accordingly. Obviously, that’s not the case. I don’t think it’s ridiculous. I think it’s reasonable. At least to consider it.
Is what really necessary? Quoting your words back to you or being exasperated with you? As it has been explained to you already recently, all we have to go on here is what YOU post and your posting history clearly indicates that you don’t really have a grasp on male/female relationship issues (and that is one of several I could link to). So it’s frustrating to see someone who has made threads asking for advice on very basic relationship issues making proclamations in this thread as if he’s some kind of expert on the subject. I don’t know you at all, I can only go by some of the bizarre threads you’ve started.
I never said you thought the guy in the OP was right so you don’t need to bust out the bold and italics with me because I didn’t accuse you of anything.
If you want to have a debate about how you think legalizing prostitution will help solve rape perhaps you should haul your ass to Great Debates and start the thread and get the discussion you so desperately want to have. I say this as someone who supports the regulated, legalized prostitution Nevada has set up.
Ok. If you don’t care about others feelings then I guess this is pointless.
Penes, MOL, penes, just because there aren’t enough tangents and nitpicks in this thread.
Don’t be sad about it. Just realize that everybody is telling you that your stupid non sequitur is not relevant. And when you keep saying “just consider it” when, as Sleeps pointed out, you have failed to grasp some basic principles of interaction with members of the female gender, you come across as lot knowing a whole lot on the subject of gender dynamics.
Prostitution isn’t the solution because sexual frustration isn’t the problem.
Figured you’d do that. Yeah, I don’t have the best track record but people do make changes for the better.
I was thinking about the same thing in regards to posting about this in Great Debates but at this point I’m exhausted.
That’s coming from you, presumably a woman. Coming from me as a man, I do consider it a significant problem.
That thread was only last month. Changes for the better? Like the pit thread you have now where you’re having high school drama because of a girl and a friend of yours? The mind boggles.
A significant problem that contributes to you doing what, exactly?
Well, there you have it, MeanOldLady. You should have charged him for that shit so that all the problems of communication, relationships, and unequal dynamics between men and women would have been resolved. Why do you hate society?