runs screaming
Well, if the balls in question were more on the order of pingpong balls than fitness balls…
What did Cinderella say when she got to the ball?
(ack! gag!)
Prince Charming had but one? Let’s hope, then, that it was a good, big one and squarely in the middle.
When I now see my ex-husband I think, “How in the HELL could I ever have been attracted to him???”
Chances are your new love interest feels the same sort of embarrassment. She probably feels crummier about it than you do.
When you’re in a bad space you make bad choices.
I would almost guarantee no if your work filters for profanity.
Here ya go with a C&P: Urban Dictionary: Dogs in The tub
Nutclops.
That’s his story and he’s stickin’ to it.
Unfortunately, after I spent my time with Prince Charming and his one-nutted-ness all my boyfriends after have been unable to look past the deeds I did with him because it makes them sick to their stomachs…
This may go down in history with Buck eyes.
That’s because Prince Charming is a known leather fetishist and a confirmed Cleveland Steamer aficionado. Two Girls, One Glass Slipper.
HEY!
Let’s all hug and get some frosty chocolate milkshakes!
:]
A dating relationship may die but that shouldn’t stop the pursuit. I’ve always parted on good terms with a girlfriend. That’s a function of dating someone who is emotionally stable.
It doesn’t have to be that way. I’ve dated women with poor self esteam and very early in the process this conversation came up. I had to frame it in words that weren’t hurtful and I think it put the relationship on the right track. Guys are not knights who ride in to save damsels in distress. Any relationship with such an underpinning will not work in the long term.
Vigorously seconded.
I tend not to attract emotionally stable women, so I guess I’ll have to tak your word for it.
I’m just curious to know how we’re defining “good terms”. If it means no screaming or crying or throwing things, no stalking or drunk dials or restraining orders, well… yeah, that’s emotionally stable.
If it means “I’m sorry this didn’t work out, I wish you the best”, that’s admirably (and IMO, extremely rarely) emotionally mature.
If it means “This has been fun, but I’m over it. Maybe I’ll run into you, if not, have a good life.”, that’s more a function of dating the emotionally unavailable.
B, I’m sorry this didn’t work out.
I don’t think it’s extremely rare, at least not in the circle of friends I have. I’m the product of WW II parents so maybe I’m from a different era. As a general rule, the nutjobs are weeded out on the first date. Maybe the social graces we were taught are missing today and dating is harder. I dunno.
Dating today is trial by ordeal.
and they still are thank og!!!
Maybe, but now that I’m thinking about it, when I was writing that, I was thinking of the end of long-term relationships, which of course tend to be a lot more complicated. I’ve seen a lot of otherwise perfectly normal and well-adjusted people lose their shit at the end of a long relationship. I completely agree that Option B is (and should be!) the norm for short relationships, or casual dating.