Worldy-
I think you just proved jlzania’s point.
Sam
<shrug>
Maybe, maybe not. I don’t really know what the hell she is talking about to be honest, so you could be right.
Oh well, looks like another sleepless night for me. 
I think it was more a comparison of your “touchy feely make nice” posts to your “gargle munch I shall destroy your planet” handle.
Defensive much? No one mentioned your
“manhood.”
Actually, you are spot on.
My apologies for that remark, I totally interpreted it the wrong way.
Thanks for pointing that out Hamadryad.
Why do you keep asking this? This is an ongoing thread where a discussion is going on. If you aren’t enjoying it, you’re certainly free to be done. And if you choose to continue yourself, I’d like to kindly request that you knock it off with the “Are we done yet?” crap. It has become annoying.
Dear Worldeater-I was hardly questioning your manhood or virility or even the size of your testicles [sub] (which I’m sure are very very large but only if you want them to be)[/sub] in my last post.
I thought it was fairly obvious by my rather stilted language that I was, at worst, gently chiding you for being just a wee bit overly sensitive, considering the forum.
You know-joshing you.
If I were seriously impugning your masculinity, I’d be more inclined to call you a cringing sniveling little crybaby whiny whinger Mr. Poopy stinky butt or something.
Which I’m sure that you’re not, of course. 
Star, FWIIW I think you are a compassionate person who didn’t use common sense in this situation then didn’t have enough backbone (sorry) to kick the person out. In fact, I think you are probably very kind if not a bit naive and a bit too trusting.
This doesn’t make you a bad person, although I am a little alarmed about the child/stranger thing.
I do respect you in that you have taken the advice offered to you in this thread and gained enough strength to boot this person out. I wish you luck and hope things go smooth.
WorldEater, how many times are you going to be done?
Ding-ding-ding!
As I said, by being so sensitive, you proved jlzania’s point…
Sam
Hijack -
Hey ya Shitgirl :D, how are ya? Long time not talk!
Well, at the moment, Diarrhea, I have tears of laughter practically streaming down my face because I simply had to go back and read that infamous thread wherein you originally dubbed me Shitna. Thankyouverymuch! Damn, sometimes I really do miss the good ol’ days around here. Back then we could call each other names and still love and adore each other.
Life is truly wonderful. How’s the world treating you, ya skank? (Other than being aboused by Drum Beater, that is. ;))
Oh, and sillystar*, rock on, girl!
*[sub][sup](go read the above-linked thread to avoid potential offense!)[/sup][/sub]
P.S. aboused = abused in my addle-brained little world.
Yep, got that.
I’ve recalibrated my touchyness meter a few notches lower, hopefully it will help.
Ahhh yes, the good old days. 
Give that cute hubby Slimey Normus a big hug from me.
::blink blink::
Excuse me? I never implied you were at all. Where is this coming from? You expressed surprise, I expressed my lack of surprise and the reasons why. I’m flabbergasted how you could take offense at that and suggest that I am implying anything about you.
Superstar, FWIW, I agree with the general assessment that you are too kind. Unfortunately, kindness beyond a certain point is no longer virtuous. You have allowed yourself to be a doormat, and there are a lot of people out there who are all too willing to wipe their muddy shoes on you. By no mere accident, one of them is undoubtedly sitting at your computer as I type. (Hey dude! Be a mate and move out already, okay?)
I read that you have taken a teeny tiny step forward and have actually set a date for him to move out, 3 weeks out. Good for you! Now, the burning question is do you really expect him to move out?
If the answer to the above was “yes” then please consider the following:
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Would YOU ever dream of asking a complete stranger to let you stay at their place for a few weeks?
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If you did stay with a stranger, or even Uncle Fred, would you eat all his food and sit at his computer all day?
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If he said he and his family were uncomfortable with you staying, would you stick around for another day, let alone 3 weeks?
If the answer to the all of the above is “no” then it is because HE DOESN’T THINK LIKE YOU. He is a TAKER and deadlines mean nothing to these types of people. He will stay as long as you put up with him. Because (and here’s the clincher), he has nowhere else to go! Unless he is real lucky and finds another shlep somehow in the next 20 days, HE IS NOT PLANNING ON GOING ANYWHERE.
So, please, for your sake, come up with a game plan for removing the new growth from your house in the very real event that he does not willingly go. You are not a victim, you are an enabler. People cannot wipe their feet on you unless you allow them to do so. Quit being a doormat and take charge of your life and your house. If you simply cannot bear a confrontation, on the aforeto agreed upon date, ask him to run an errand. When he is gone, have the locks changed and put his bags on the porch along with some taxi money. Don’t return for several hours. He may think unkindly of you, yes. But, IMO, it’s better for him to think unkindly of you when you kick him out in December than to have him think unkindly of you when you kick him out in June.