Gotta disagree with ya, you young pup. BTW, I’m male.
Are you sure it was because the lap dances were just too sexual and not because there were actual sex acts going on? Its common at the more seedier clubs for the strippers to work as prostitutes on the side so it wouldn’t be surprising to hear of a club getting shut down because they were performing “extra” services.
Actually, they soak through. The stripper has to clean up, and sometimes change.
The grossness is the attraction, I think. Bachelor parties always seem to be organized around the skeeviest sexual experiences.
That would be my one-time rugby team. Strip clubs were part of the routine, as were gross-out/dare competions that would make “Jackass” pale by comparison. Truly juvenile, usually hilarious, often vomit inducing. Despite being the non-drinker and not participating in the dares, I still have a scar from one of those eveings (I also ended up with a girlfriend from that same evening, but no longer have her).
At some point, though, one reaches the ick point, at which the enjoyment of running loose as a shit flinging monkey is over-balanced by the seediness and juvenality of it all. If someone held a bachelor party for me that included a strip club, I simply wouldn’t attend.
My apologies; I didn’t mean to come across as holier-than-thou or anything. I just got the sense from the OP that although he wasn’t terribly interested, he also wasn’t necessarily vehemently against it, so my advice would be to just go and deal with it.
Sorry if I sounded like a prick.