I'm sorry

The BBQ Pit
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sorry if i might sound like you mom, but you are not supposed to throw the rock back, that makes you as bad as you considered the one who threw the rock originally. now that drainthelizard has apologized and said he was sorry for the words that led to this, why dont you too? are you not sorry for what you said. you know, you said YOURSELF that you verbally assaulted him(echoed my words).

its called: “yeah…im sorry too. even if you deserved it at the time, you dont deserve it now.”

are you a religious man? im not in the biblical sense, but i do hear the moral messages many religions preach. like: turn the other cheek…chin, whichever…i always forget.

coldfire: you might be correct, 35% of my posts might be directed at you, but about 90% of the posts directed at you are replies to your posts, in two threads i have called upon you before you called upon me. in the thread this one is spawned off, and my own “what the f*** are you doing coldfire”…remember?
do i piss you off? without using silly words?
and just in case you havent noticed: drainthelizard didnt apologize specifically for saying you were a stupid fuck.

Duck duck goose: its not really difficult flaming someone without being rude. take for instance this post. why? because i truly mean every word i say in this and for that matter any other post i make. i am not joking around, pulling everybodies legs and turning them upside down with wonderings if i am lying or not. flaming someone by making a joke…is a joke. but its a bad flame. it might be hilarious, but its not true! its false and therefore shouldnt be taken seriously. so how can it be considered a flame if you arent offended by it, but rather puzzled at a silly choice of words. i am not rude, although some people might consider me, but some people are offended by the truth, to them my posts might be considered flames…go figure.

consider this scenario:
joe: jerry, you stupid fuck!
jerry: you are the stupid fuck, i didnt do nothing, you started this!
joe: you are a stupid fuck because your country is the main exporter of coca cola.
jerry: you stupid fuck, my country doesnt do that.
joe: oh, yes you are correct, im sorry for saying that, but you are still a stupid fuck.
jerry: Apology accepted. Try not to fuck up again, OK?

where does “stupid fuck” fit in? silly thing really.

directed at no one in general(just in case someone misunderstood): think about it, people call you a stupid fuck as a joke. hahaha…whats next?
but if people call you a stupid fuck and really mean it. its the same thing, hahaha…whats next? because you know it isnt true. if you know it to be the truth on the other hand you are going to need pshyciatric help(eh…i propably need grammar help with that one).

bj0rn - bö

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bj0rn, you’re a stupid fuck. Now run along.

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bjOrn: Look, you self-righteous little PC pygmie. If someone flames you, you flame them back. That’s just the way of the pit. Basically what you’re saying is “Why can’t The Pit be more nice”. Which is just plain retarded. Asking people to do that is like asking people not to dance at the nightclub. This place is meant for flaming, so you shouldn’t be at all surprised when it happens. Granted, people shouldn’t just flame each other for no reason. But if somebody flames you it’s more than justifiable to flame him back. In fact, it’s almost expected.

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Interesting post Freak.

Maybe you should inform him that when you get flamed you can also run to a moderator and get the post close if it becomes too hot.

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a matter of opinion.

again, matter of opinion. and…why?

read it again opinionman, you got it wrong!

not an example that can be put into context with the given subject.

so, somebody gives me a reason to flame him/her. i go to the pit, because thats the flaming place and start calling him/her a stupid fuck? boy, this is really exciting stuff!

looky, i flamed you without calling you a stupid fuck!!!..more than you can say of coldfire…aiii, i did it again!!!.

(to no one in general) so flaming someone by calling him a stupid fuck only makes you look like a stupid fuck. dont carry this flaming stuff to far, this is the place for all complaints and other discussion regarding administration of the SDMB.
so im complaining about you being rude…im saying that you are not flaming, just being rude!

bj0rn - sod

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Yeah, that pretty much covers it :rolleyes:

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Well, BjOrn, I guess I’ll just leave it at that. You obviously enjoy the form, rather than the substance. If you want to spend all your time squabbling with Coldfire about whether or not people should be rude, or ironic, or sarcastic, or use proper punctuation, I suppose that’s your affair.

But I have to tell you, babe, you’re missing out on some good conversations…

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bj0rn: You are trying to put out a fire using water, not realising you are holding a gasoline can.

This is issue is dead. If you are well meaning (sometimes it is hard to tell), be aware that - even if it did last a little long - this fire was out and you are in danger of reigniting it.

picmr

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So tell us, Master, how do you flame people? Do you give lessons?

Do tell me how it’s done. I don’t think I’ll be able to rest easy until you show me how it’s done.

:rolleyes:

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globe-trotter:

so you took it personally? you think you cant flame? well thats just darn well your problem!

just in case you didnt notice i labeled that paragraph to no one in general, if you took the “you” i wrote personally, then i must have been speaking to you. silly of me not to notice…

duck duck goose:

ill spend my time any darn way i please thank you very much, yes…its my affair. and if you want a conversation there are better places for that than a message board on the internet.

bj0rn - verbal vomit

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and

ok, who stole Bj0rn’s password?

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I’ll say! That’s because Hell just froze over! Apologizing for anything is very unusual for me. I could probably count the number of times I’ve done it in my lifetime on one hand. Why I felt contrition in this instance is difficult to explain. I think I got a little too caught up in the anonymity afforded by the SDMB and let my Id run wild. I said things I would never ordinarily say. SPOOFE and Monster104 finally snapped me out of this mode by asking: why?

And I never thought that you had anything to apologize for. Compared to some of the stuff I said, what you said about me was pretty mild. (That’s not a slam)

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Classy move, Drainthelizard, and that is said with no overtones or sarcasm.

Speaking strictly for myself, a sincere apology merits acceptance and going on. Darned few people haven’t done something they regret sometime in their lives. (I’ve pulled some truly boneheaded moves I’m still shaking my head over years later!)

So congrats on extending the olive branch (or whatever that green leafy peace offering is). It took a lot of class and courage. And please don’t let this inhibit you from posting. You took responsibility and did what you could to set things right.

Veb

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My view: Accept the apology without trying to read between the lines. We’re not qualified to do that with a poster we don’t know so well. You don’t have to like the person. Just fucking move on. If it isn’t sincere, that will be apparent eventually.

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Cranky,

I see why you are called cranky.

I posted my view on the sitution, deal with it.

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Nice move, DRL.

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Ummm…that would be “DTL”.

Hooked On Phonics Works For Me!

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ok, DTL, I’ll say it, it was a good move to apologize.

leave everything said in this thread, in this thread.