Well, the results are in:
Oral sex is sex.
Sex is coitus.
Oral sex is not coitus.
All are fun.
And ChiefScott isn’t getting any of them. wink
So by the dictionary definition then would vaginal/penal penitration with a condom (no geneteic material sharing there) not be sex? Doesn’t make sence.
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When I went to guy school, back in the early days, back in Texas, my instructors always maintained that “eatin’ ain’t cheatin’.”
And if oral sex is not sex, it will certainly do until sex is available.
When compiling my “List” as all men do, I’ve always counted the handjobs I’ve gotten from women along the way too.
Jaysus…getting a woman to voluntarily stimulate me to orgasm is too momentous an occasion not to call it sex.
Which begs the question: Is it oral sex (fellatio or cunnilingus) if there is no orgasm?
Is this what high school health class called 'heavy petting?
I fellated my first boyfriend several times before we ever actually engaged in coitus (could I be more technical?), but I date the loss of my virginity from the first instance of coitus, as does he.
However…I can’t imagine having taken someone’s penis or clitoris in my mouth, for the purpose of giving pleasure, and then honestly say I haven’t had sex. I think the loss of virginity for a woman would be measured by most as the moment when she was first actually penetrated.
If someone is a life-long lesbian and is not fond of penetration, I’d imagine she would date the loss of her virginity differently, as would a gay man who is not interested in anal sex.
The only reason I can think of for wondering whether or not oral sex “counted” is when accused by a partner of cheating. In that context, if you try to get away with, “I didn’t fuck her, honey, she just sucked me off” you deserve whatever beating you get.
I vote Oral Sex being sex. If it isn’t, you’re not doing it right! :eek:
I was with a lot of guys before Mr. Rilch, but he’s the only one I’ve ever gone down on. So for me to do that for any other guy would be the worst betrayal.
In fact, I think a woman who goes down on a guy, unless he’s threatening her life if she doesn’t do so, is much more clearly betraying her SO. A woman can be passive during genital sex, and claim to her SO that she was pretending the other guy was him, but if she’s giving someone head, she’s doing all the work, so she must be doing it from choice.
I can’t believe no one’s responded to this yet?
In short: Yes.
If broom handle was inserted in a loving and caring way.
Also, I would caracterize oral sex as sex. I know some gay guys who have never had anal sex. They’ve definetly had sex, just no anal penetration. Likewise I would say I’ve had “sex” with people where there has been no anal or vaginal penetration.
And in at least one God forsaken state in our beloved land, the wonderful stuff we’re talking about here, even when mutually agreed upon and performed by consenting MARRIED adults, is considered SODOMY, and therefore against the law.
So be careful when traveling through Georgia!
Im a vaginatarian. I consider that sex.
Alessan, legally, virginity is the penis/vagina thing. Not an oral thing. But sometimes people like to play at it. e.g.
‘you’re no longer an anal virgin anymore’ In that case, a verb? originally, a noun.
I was reading to my then husband to be out of his marriage and family book to help him study. I read out the top ten myths about sex. When I got to “Oral sex is a perversion.” he exploded. THAT IS NOT A MYTH!! Oral sex is the vilest of pervsions!" and he continued on for some time. When he finally ran out of steam i asked, “What do you think we have been doing for the last month? What do you think oral sex is?”
He had no clue.
ROTFLMAO…dear lord, can anybody top that one?
I would like to take this moment to say, ChiefScott, that your posts just get better and better.
That said…
There must be something wrong with me. I’ve never had oral sex with anyone that I haven’t also had ‘intercourse’ with.
So on my ‘list’ there’s no need to discriminate. They all count.
When I am incredibly drunk and for some reason decide to rehash my remarkably cringe-worthy sexual history and make a tally, I count the guys to whom I gave head, as well as those to whom I gave tail. I think that’s as succinctly as I can state my position (not that I didn’t bore everyone already trying once before).
lee, I may have to bookmark this thread now for anytime I want a giggle. That story is truly priceless. Thanks for sharing.
Now, when do we start seeing posts from Mr. lee, huh?
You better believe it’s sex…and a kind of sex I’m not getting enough of, too…
Did he change his assessment of oral sex? I can see it now:
“Ah…well…hmm…perhaps it’s not the vilest…in fact…uh…I musta been thinking about something else. Yeah, that’s it. Never mind.”
No it’s not…at least according to Bill Clinton…
Lets analyze, the words oral and sex. Oral- pertaining to the mouth… correct? I think we can all agree on that. Sex- intercourse… I’m fairly confident that is correct. Put them together… mouth intercourse. Sex with the mouth. Key word there… SEX. If sex is one of the words in a fornicatory act, I would put my money on it being sex. Therefore, its sex, kiddo…