Happy Toosday!
I slept until 8. then fell back asleep until 11.
I need some food.
2Gig - some decisions are hard to make. I thought you were too nice the first time around. Then again I’m kind of a bitch, the older I get the less tolerance I have for bad behavior. Watching what my friend goes through with her spoiled, entitled, brat of a junkie daughter, if they had cracked down on the spoiled brat sooner they may not being going through all this crap now. I swear if I hear my friend moan one more time about how they were so good to her and gave her everything she wanted so how can she have done this and why doesn’t she respect them I think I will smack my friend. That’s exactly why she is the way she is, she never had to face consequences, she never had boundaries or restrictions - so now they have a junkie daughter sitting in a rehab, where she gets everything done for her, and eats organic food prepared by chefs, and works out in a gym every morning, and gets to have horse back riding therapy, and her bed is made, and her clothes are washed, and she doesn’t have a single responsibility other than to work on her self created problem at the cost of $1000/day - or more. No thought or cares about the baby she brought into the world after purposely getting pregnant, knowing she was addicted to drugs and the poor baby had to spend the first month of her life going through the painful process of being weaned off drugs.
Or my nieces ex-bf who was actually stealing the food stamps, that were meant to feed his children, so he could buy drugs. He would let his children starve and be homeless because of his selfish needs.
Well, nobody opened his mouth and shoved those pills in. Nobody grabbed her arm and shot her up. They made conscientious decisions to do what they did and now everybody else around them is suffering the consequences and paying for it, and then I get told they can’t help it and we are supposed to feel sorry for them.
Well, really! When do I get to go sit in a spa for 30 days, and have my meals cooked, and get massages, and ride horses at somebody else’s expense, when will the government pay me to feed my kid, or pay for my housing?
I am so sick of people making excuses and letting other people off and not holding them accountable for their actions.
At 20 he is too damn old to be committing acts of vandalism, that is what punk ass teenagers do, not adults. At 20 he is too young to be drinking, and an unlocked door is not an invitation. As a midshipman he is to be held to a higher standard and he made that choice. I doubt anybody picked him up, deposited him at the academy and made that choice for him. He knew the rules when he signed up for them, he choose that path and he needs to live up to it.
Then again, I’m a bitch - so probably not the person to take advice from.