It's Time For A New MMP

Morning, mumpers! It’s 14c/58f with a predicted high of 16c/60f. Weather app says “It’s a perfect fucking day to go muddin’” which I’m going to have to google since I have no idea what that is, except it probably involves mud.

Gigity I’m so sorry to hear about your Dad, even if it’s expected and in some ways a relief, it’s still a lot to deal with.

sari AARP will be another google for me, no idea what that is but it sounds tremendously annoying. I hope you get the leak fixed easily and life lets up on you for a while. Sounds like you need a hug and a holiday.

Moooom here’s to getting rid of the in-laws finally! You’ve spent so much time getting their lives sorted out, it must be time to step back and focus on yourselves for a while, you must be exhausted, inside and out.

Alone time continues nicely today! I did all my errands and whatnot yesterday, got my covid booster and flu shot so have been jabbed in both arms. They’re both now sore and quite painful to raise above shoulder height, so I am trying not to do that. Last night I went out to see a band in a local pub, had a good time but wasn’t out very long. By the time I got home, I was feeling a bit achy and shivery so went to bed and managed to sleep ok. This morning I feel tired still, my arms are still sore and feel both tight and heavy (nothing untoward there for post-jab stuff) and my head is foggy.

Still, I have been up and sorted the cats out, changed the bedding (found one of Ophie’s blood pressure tablets at the bottom of the bed, under the duvet!) and put that through the 15-minute express wash. Got to save some power here and there, yannow…that’s now hanging in the bathroom to dry. I have a little bit of ironing to do, I need to prep lunch stuff for campus and then I can veg on the sofa for the rest of the day. I had sketties and meatballs for dinner last night so I have leftovers for today, and I’ve taken chilli out of the freezer for tomorrow night’s dinner. If I get on and do the last couple of chores now, I get the afternoon on the sofa, hopefully with a cat for company.

I woke up about 7.30am with Ophelia’s face about an inch from mine, in fact it was the tickle of her whiskers that woke me up. Whisper was curled up beside me, and Spare Cat was asleep by my feet. SC has had breakfast and I thought he’d disappeared off again but he’s just strolled out of the bedroom so it must be time for elevenses!

Something I hadn’t mentioned - when I was vacuuming up in the house in Ocala, I kept coming across assorted pills on the floor. No wonder FIL’s health is all screwed up - his meds apparently are very random. FCD is about to take control of that, too.

OK, no more in-law whining. For now… :wink:

Up, caffeinated, and sheveled. Off today. It’s 42 degrees Amurikun here. There’s morning Packers footballin London today( : waves at boofae : ) Then I shall clean and sloth.

“Take daily maintenance medication daily? In this economy?” -reason

Oh, and I did and adulting thing, and scheduled my last payment on Carmen. Do I get a gold star or something?

sari, I’ll probably sign up for AARP, but I’m waiting for my progressive glasses to arrive. So I can be properly decrepit when I sign up. :wink:

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Good morning everyone.

Well, it’s not really good, because the supposedly “no Habla” people next door have been belting out drunken karaoke all night. They’re still going strong at 5:20 in the morning. I went and banged on their door at 4:30 and told them to turn it down, and they did, for five minutes. So screw 'em, I called the Sheriff’s department. These assholes have messed with me for the last time. This is a monthly occurrence and I’m sick of it. Throw in no sleep and I’m just over the top pissed. I don’t know if the Sheriff’s department will actually show up, they have lots more stuff to contend with than deputies, but I am at my wit’s end.

I dunno, the 12-year-old in me wants to set up giant assed speakers facing their house and blast death/thrash metal at them later this morning. However, that’s not fair to the rest of my neighbors and is childish.

FCM, vent away. Seriously! You and FCD are dealing with very difficult stuff. When do they actually move into the apartment?

In good news, the belated birthday gathering for Adam was very nice. Zoe had a couple of melt downs, but overall it was good. Grandpa wore those kids out and they both fell asleep on the couch next to Grandpa.

My son paid a surprise visit to us. He had picked up my mother on the way to the birthday gathering and after dropping her off yesterday evening, he came to our house. It’s always nice to hang out with him. He stayed the night and is the first guest to sleep in our guest bed. It’s nice to actually have a bed and frame and not an air mattress, lol.

Those last payments are SO NICE! Congrats, doggio!

Almost done with my second cup of coffee. I’m not sure what the day holds for me, so I’ll take it as it comes.

Morning all. Paper and pill have been taken care of, it’s 69F in the house and 45F outside, so my plan to mow the yard at 10am may be altered. I have, for the first time in awhile, a plan for the day written out, usually it’s a note or two and make it up as I go along. We’ll see if I follow it.

Taters, I have been lucky to have pretty quiet neighbors where I live, but the house next door that was being renovated is open for new people, so we’ll see what kind of neighbors I get this time. Hope the cops at least knock on their door. And the party sounds like it was blast for the kids and the adults.

FCM, hope Monday will be your day of rest.

Sari, AARP used to bug me a lot, not so much anymore, it’s the USO, who I donated to once several years ago who drives me crazy. But I have a heavy-duty shredder that likes to be fed…and I hope the stuff works on the pipes and saves you a plumbing call.

BooFae, AARP used to stand for American Association of Retired Persons*) but I think now they just go by the initials. They like to pretend they represent the ‘older folks’ to Congress and other places, but it never seemed worth joining IMHO.

OK, need to have some Instant Breakfast (It’s called Breakfast Essentials now but I’m old and I’ll call it what I once knew it as, darnit) and consider my list for the day. All y’all take care.

I made it to almost 9:15 before the thirsty/gotta pee/needy cat combo got me up.

I have every intention of going back to bed shortly.

That’ll do, shoe; that’ll do. :grinning: :grinning: :grinning:

I have never gotten any mailings from AARP. Apparently I am on their pay no mind list. BIL is still in hospital because his potassium was low. I told my sister to give him a banana. The hospital is 2 hours from their house so they’ve been at a hotel and sister did not pack enough underpants!!!

I have nothing scheduled for today except clean the litter box and take a walk. 2gig I’m sorry about your dad but understand what you said. Today is the 17th anniversary of my dad. I can’t believe he has been gone this long and damn, I miss him every day.

My brain was busy even in my dreams. First it decided to create an improved version of the lemon cupcakes I made a couple months ago. Because I was hiding from shadowy bad guys, I was making them in a dirty garage and trying to keep the batter and equipment clean. Then I worked on a blueberry-maple-pecan layer cake recipe inspired by blueberry pancakes. Then–and this part is WAAAY fuzzy on the science–I invented a way to “cold shock” hearts back into a normal rhythm.

I AM baking today, but just the “crack cookies” I made to give away on my birthday. My friend who lost her cat told me before the kitteh escaped that she’d love to get more the next time I made them, and I’m hoping they’ll help comfort her, though as MetalMouse said, the cat may still show up.

I rarely get anything from AARP. I keep forgetting I’m a senior citizen, and apparently, so do they.

2gig, I’m so sorry you lost your dad. May I say how much I admire you and your sis for giving him such the most serene passage possible? And I think letting an attorney handle the estate sounds very wise.

FCM, holy moly, that’s scary about with MIL’s dosing oddness and the the scattered pills and all. How is BIL doing? Is he in his own place yet? (Sorry if you said so and I missed this bit.)

Taters, good on ya for calling the cops. My son and his wife had to do that once. Their neighbor in their old place was deliberately blaring music at them at 2 a.m… He was an old racist who hoped to drive them out because my DIL is biracial. The cops DID show up and whatever they told him worked, so here’s hoping the same happens with your noisy neighbors.

doggio, I coulda sworn I saw a recipe for a Gold Star cocktail that contained bourbon, Galliano, and sweet vermouth, but it seems to be called a Blind Pilot, so never mind.

OMGosh that sounds familiar. Before my folks went to AL we found dozens of unopened Rx bottles belonging to my Mom. Blood thinners heart pills all her meds!

Once in AL we signed them both up for meds management ($$$$) which is the facility orders your meds and a CNA is supposed to administer your meds. We’ll we found out they’d drop off the meds and expected Mom to take them like she promised she would. Nope! A large scattering of pills under and behind her sofa chair was found. WTF!

Macabre anecdote ahead -
Irony was she’d occasionally claim she wanted to die, and say things she’d like to take a cruise and they’d jump off the boat. Or some other such amusing/not story. Thing is, all she’d have to do is take a handful of those damn meds and she’d have kicked off. I’m thankful my Mom passed peacefully without suffering.

SWMBO was looking to see what’s coming on TV. She said, ‘Oh! The Thing [2011] is coming on at ten!’ I said, ‘Seahawks vs. Saints’ comes on at ten.’ ‘You can watch that on your computer.’ :rage: :zipper_mouth_face:

Conked back out until just past noon, and feel much better now.
Off to do it all again in a coupla hours.

Off to my Grandma day playing with Harriet and Sorenson~here’s hoping the external battery on the portable oxygen concentrator works this time. Otherwise Grandma Boo just sucks air the last 3 hours (the internal battery on the concentrator is good for about 5 hours, then it has to be plugged in. Grandma plugged into the wall on a short cord doesn’t work well with 1 and 5 year olds).

But hey! at least they live close to me and, even better, they want me to come over for the day every Sunday~fills my bucket.

@nelliebly , can you share the crack cookies recipe?

Cat and human bathrooms are clean. I walked a mile. Now the sloth.

Brother in law is being discharged today. He will feel much better at home and in his own bed.

I was going to buy chicken tenders at the store but was put off by the packages of chicken feet. Truly, I almost retched.

Happy Sunday.

It was a BRRRRR! 36 degrees at the park this morning.
I put two shirts on under my jacket and it wasn’t too bad.
Only uncomfortable when Jax, who wants me to throw the ball for him, gets my pants wet with dripping water, and my hands were cold from throwing a wet ball.
He likes for me to throw the ball because I throw like a girl and he doesn’t have to run very far to get it.
Most of the talk today was about Barky/Humpy mom going to the small side yesterday. She has to know that Lucy dad and Coco dad don’t like her and go there to get away from her, so everybody was shocked she did that.

Echo was a bit naughty today.
We were late getting there, which is not the usual. We usually walk across the parking lot and down the ramp to the sidewalk. Echo saw all the dogs in the park and decided to run straight down the hill through the wet grass. She yanked the leash right out of my son’s hand and ran the fence with the dogs in the park. My son panicked because she was loose, I knew she wasn’t going anywhere. But he is lucky he didn’t have the leash; I have seen many people go down that hill on their belly or their ass when their dogs pulled. The hill is short, but steep.
Then when we got home.
We stopped at McDonalds for breakfast. When we pulled up to the house, I saw the squirrel in the yard.
My son got out with Echo and the bag of food. When he reached out for the keys, I handed him his orange juice as well. I was just getting ready to tell him to watch out for the squirrel and as soon as he got in the gate, Echo saw it and took off through the yard. The bag went one way, the juice went another, and the keys went another.
My son was so pissed. Not so much about losing the juice, but that it poured down the front of his hoody.
He had to wash and dry it before we left for the armpit, only now we’re not going because my nieces, whom I just talked to Friday, forgot we were coming.
I don’t feel so bad now about my memory.

Such nice people at the park though. One woman came up to the gate and walked me down to the pavilion because the dogs were being so rambunctious that she was afraid they would knock me down. Another walked me out, for the same reason.
The dogs get really wild in the cooler weather.
They came close to wiping out Urban dad. He is a big, strong, fairly young construction worker. I know if it had been anybody else, they would have been on the ground getting slammed like that.

Taters, I used to have party neighbors when I lived in Baltimore.
They kept me up til morning one night, and I figured since I was up, I may as well mow the lawn. One guy had his head hanging out the window yelling at me. The only word i could make out was BITCH.
Damned if that grass wasn’t so high that I had to mow the front yard 3 times.
He was lucky I didn’t have a chain saw. The trees could have used a little trimming.
I’m glad you had a good time with your family.

Shoe, aarp was billing me because for some reason in their stupid little brain they got the idea that I signed up to become a member.

BooFae, aarp are also a lobbyist group, they make a shit ton of money and spend a shit ton on lobbying for older people. Or so they say. They also sell insurance and other stuff to older people. Some people like them, and you can get discounts on insurance and hotels, airfare, cellphones and such. Other people have found better prices on their own.
I think at one time the concept was good, and they were genuine. Now I think they are all about making money.
If they had not sent me a letter on my 50th birthday, and if they could take no for an answer, and if they weren’t so obnoxiously pushy, I may have considered joining.
Now, there is no way in hell.

Ugh, I don’t like to get into politics, but there is a politician up here (well not really up here, we have always been treated like the red-haired step child) who will NOT give up. He sent me an email. You would think that when the first words of my response were FUCK YOU, he would have gotten the message. I know, they probably don’t even read the responses.
I hate this man with a burning passion of a thousand suns.
He has sent me multiple emails, phone calls, snail mails, and text messages. I was invited to listen in on a public forum, and much to my surprise, if I hit 9, I would be allowed to speak. So, I hit 9, and wouldn’t you know, somebody answered the phone. They got an earful; I think they were hyperventilating on the other end.
Now the dumb mf’er is sending people to my door, his minions are so damned lucky I didn’t hear them knock. I saw them later on my ring, wearing VOTE t-shirts and they left a bunch of his shit hanging from the door knob.
I know he didn’t send them to my door specifically, but I don’t want any of that crap (from any politician) knocking on my door. It is so annoying.
He’s really ramping it up, seems he is not a shoo-in this year.
Too bad, so sad.

I hope the root killer fixes the issue. I washed two loads of laundry yesterday and ran the dishwasher with no problem. It seems to leak only when using the tub.

I had to give my old dog Mackie Benadryl twice a day. I’d wrap them up in some cheese and he’d take them. One day I picked up his bed and there were about a dozen pills under it. Sneaky dog.

Congrats on the last payment Doggio.

I’m sorry for all your in-law woes FCM
For all the shit I’m going through right now, I wouldn’t trade places with you.

I suppose I should start doing something around here.
There is certainly enough to do.

Afternoon all. Lawn is mowed and got some extra exercise at the gym, so shortly will head over to Red Robin (Yum!) and undo all the good I did. Also will do my Moanday shopping and pick up a prescription at Walgreens while I’m out. Just a bundle of activity here…

Sari, glad the only drama at the Dog Park was caused by the dogs. And don’t have to much politics here, the Republicans have such a lead the Democrats hardly even try anymore.

BBBoo, enjoy grandkid day.

OK, need to bathe and shave and other look presentable for restaurant dining. Take care all.

hahahahahahahahaha!!! Nope. We’ll be going back to set up Alexa and reassemble the works for the grandfather clock and I need to take MIL grocery shopping. Just hope it’s a short day.

Today, all FIL’s shop stuff was unloaded into FCD’s shop. It really was a wasted effort, as he’ll never be able to work in a shop again. I got all the kitchen boxes unpacked, and much of the stuff put away. I also reviewed with MIL how the washer and dryer work (she can’t see the labels on the controls, so I put the washer on a good default setting, and I told her how to set the dryer. We shall see…

FCD got their TV set up, and I managed to find the password for the wifi, so that’s good to go. Oh, and the truck, dolly, and blankets got turned in without incident. We still have a few items in our garage that need to go to the apartment, but not till they clear out more boxes.

He’s on a waiting list for subsidized housing so in the interim, he’s living with his folks. Which is good - he can drive them (when the car gets out of the shop) and help out as much as he can. He’s been amazingly mellow - I think he’s taking his meds as he should, and he’s eager to get a job. Dare I hope he’s growing up at last??

FCD has been looking at devices that dispense meds automatically according to a schedule and program you can set. Short of someone shoving the pills down their throats, it seems the most controlled way to ensure they take their meds. Maybe. Stubborn, they are.

Anyway, we’re home, just the two of us, chilling. FCD Is watching football, and I’ll mosey out there in a bit. Any food for the rest of the day will be via forage. The quiet is bliss!! I forgot how wonderful it is.

Bliss…

You would go to a quiet motel, put the “do not disturb” sign on the door, shut your phone off and sleep until you wake up. Then order food to be delivered and sleep again.

I’m really getting pretty concerned about you, your stress levels are over the top high.

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Congrats, it always feels good to pay off a large debt.

What you guys need to do is start opening them, fill the self addressed, STAMPED envelope with everything you received and add a note saying to take you off their mailing list. They don’t like paying the post office to deliver garbage to them, but they won’t know it is garbage until someone is paid to open the envelopes and go through the contents.

It works even faster if the return envelopes aren’t pre-stamped because that costs them more.

Oh NO! I wonder if she can get some at the hospital gift shop.

nellie is your friend able to put some of kitty’s bedding or food outside? Cats have good noses, kitty might come back at night and stay by her comfort items.

I’m so glad the saga is almost over. I certainly hope it all works out fairly close to plan. How long is the waiting list for subsidized housing there? As I understand it is years long here with nobody building more.

It’s a beautiful day here, I’ve got all the windows open and the cats are busily dressing up the house by sleeping on the windowsills.

The yard flock is LOVING the hazelnuts. I crushed half the bag with a hammer when I started putting them out but that seems to have been a wasted effort because the nuts are soft enough that even the little birds can peck them apart. I would feel badly about feeding the birds expensive free nuts except I did try to find a human to give them to first and was unsuccessful.