Unless, of course, you’re Ace, and then it’s incumbent upon you in any conflict in which a cruel person is bullying someone else to step up and bravely defend the bully.
I think there was a lack of tact shown by Jersey in the thread towards Eve and others. I don’t follow her posts or know her enough to know if that’s par for the course, although that seems to be the opinion of the majority here. In any event, the remarks to and about Eve (who has become someone whose posts I like to read, of late) were over the top, and even if they violate no Rules they certainly did not appear to be very polite. I feel that in a less hostile discussion, she may have either not made the comments in the first place, or else apologized more readily for them; but then, like I said, I don’t know her or her past behaviour.
Of course, fair or not, some of the hostile give-and-take in the GD thread really seems to me to be mainly based on past issues and conflicts between several actors. Hey, I can understand that, and I’m guilty of that myself, but what I’m saying is I’m not certain if the GD thread warranted this. However, in opposition to the opinion of Ace I feel that it is perfectly proper to start a thread on behalf of an offended or injured party.
As for Joe_Cool, I think that when someone took the time to speak respectfully and calmly to him, and not keep harping on things he wasn’t doing in that particular thread, he responded back honestly and politely, and as a result we each made clear our respective positions and views. I feel it was clear that he is uncomfortable with transsexualism and transgendered persons, and I am somewhat bothered by his gender-divisions or gender-definitions - quite bothered, actually. But really, what can you expect? People have different feelings about a lot of things. So long as Joe doesn’t approve of or sanction in any way discrimination, retribution towards, violence, acts of hate, etc. against trans persons, then his dislike of them is something I can live with.
It’s regrettable, but then, so are a lot of things. I’d rather try to talk to people about this to get them to understand, not hate, not fear. Because it’s pathetically easy and trivial to find people who disagree with, misunderstand, fear, or hate transsexual persons. It’s a real challenge to try to change minds.
I wonder if there’s room on Sphinctoid’s Martyr Bus for Ace?
No, the Clique needs a professional offense monitor, and you were fairly elected, and have never to my knowlege been hypocritical, hypersensitive, unfair, or over the top, not even a little bit.
I salute you, sir. It’s a good thing we have people like yourselves to rescue people who themselves aren’t sure if a pit thread is needed! Don’t worry, we’ve got Captain Offense to make sure the shit is properly stirred.
Settled the dust-up with a time-out? Worked out your grievances through e-mail? Fuck that, we want to see BLOOD! Open a pit thread, quick, Captain Offense! I’ve got my nice shiny new rock, and my axe has been ground razor-sharp!
I was going to riff on The Wells Fargo Wagon Is A-Comin’, but “Sphinctoid Martyr Bus” didn’t scan so well.
Esprix
Gee, Ace, if you could stop being a flaming asshole for five seconds and actually answer the question I put to you, it sure would be helpful to those of us trying to see your point.
Esprix
you have a really good sense of humor, young man
:rolleyes: Duuuuuuude. If you have to ask to be in The CliqueTM then you’re so obviously not CliqueTM material.
That would be quite a trick.
God bless the Christians who can either accept people as who they are, or are at least polite enough to keep quiet about their disdain. Or are feelings a Beatitude that only Christians get?
For the love og OG!
Let me in The Clique[symbol]ä[/symbol]!
Damn The Clique[symbol]ä[/symbol]
I miss Danielinthewolvesden.
Amazing! I personally have heard of all 33,000+ members and seen all their posts.
I’ll tell you why I’m here. I’m here b/c you horribly insulted a poster whom I greatly respect, and not only do you not give a shit, you won’t even acknowledge that you’ve done so. I find that utterly despicable.
And since it’s clear to me you have no intention of treating others with respect, why in the hell should anyone treat you with respect?
I’ll ask again - why can’t you recognize that…
…you know what? I see no point in wasting my time with you. If you’re too immature to apologize to Eve then go to hell.
I thought from your earlier posts that you might actually care about people and that you just were clueless. I see that I was wrong. My mistake.
With all due respect Ace I think a lot of people posting in this thread were not overly exercised about JD and JC’s position on TS/TG people’s bio status or issues relating to when a person should tell someone they are seeing that they are TS/TG. There’s a lot of wiggle room in those positions and I daresay some (obviously not all) of the folks commenting in this thread may well have agreed to a greater or lesser degree with JD and JC’s position about notification or the immutability of biology.
Most of the people in this thread are commenting on JD’s needlessly personal and cruel comment to Eve about the obviousness that “she” was a man at the dopefest. It is manfiest at this point that JD feels she was simply making a valid empirical observation and really does not see what all the huge fuss is about, and that this is simply another opportunity for those so inclined to play another round “beat the fundamentalist Christian”.
JD does not grok in any way shape or form the difficult and tortured path that TS/TG individuals must walk to get to a point that they can have a reasonably comfortable existence within the gender roles they have chosen as appropriate. No one is more aware than they of the biological contraints and limits nature places on them. To have someone one come along and say “Well this is nice game of dress up you’re playing but come on, you’re a man, it’s obvious! Stop kidding yourself.” is about the nastiest and cruelest body blow you can land on a TS/TG person trying to get along in life.
In case you were wondering Ace that’s why most people in this thread are pissed.
Well, it wouldn’t be any worse than, say, finding out your partner had been married before, and hadn’t told you. Or that s/he had children somewhere, and hadn’t told you. Or had huge outstanding college loans, and hadn’t told you.
In other words, these are all issues that you work through–you don’t just throw the other person out because you found out he’d been married before and hadn’t told you.
Oh yes! Young Jesus Christ. Changing water to wine (maybe conjuring up a keg too). Opening a can of whoop-ass on the temple moneychangers.
And you accept Jersey Diamond as a Christian?
I accept this person has an abnormality, but believes she is Christian. If she was raised as a Christian, it is out of her control. This is what she knows. If I was a pastor, I would not minister to her.
The bottom line is that if you act UnChristian, you are UnChristian. You can think whatever you want.
If I suck up all the bullshit dogma and bang my bible, I look like I am Christian, that does not make me Christian. It means I am doing an impersonation of a Christian.
When posting, I see Jersey Diamons and Joe Cool as heathen. That doesn’t mean I hate them, it’s just how I see them.
Woo hoo, that was fun.
Join the club, JerseyDiamond. Of course, I can’t say for sure, but I wouldn’t be surprised if every conservative, Bible believing Christian that comes to the board gets their own pit thread. After all, how dare we disagree with the majority! You realize, that giving your honest opinion and disagreeing with people here is considered a hateful attack, don’t you? :smack:
Okay, who wins the pool?
NO!
We know where you live. You keep that damn Lime Jello with shredded carrots to yourself.