I was at a party the previous eve, and I met a charming and beautiful young lady that literally rendered me speechless. I watched her for awhile, then when she disappeared to a different room I asked the group she was with a few details. Boyfriend? Age? Single?
I got pleasant answers and her associates encouraged me to talk to her, insisted that she was a very smart woman, very sweet, and in need of a good man. It took me another hour to build up the courage to even introduce myself…an unheard of thing for me as I am one of the most confident people I know. I usually have no qualms about talking to anyone…but I was nervous…amazing to me, but very very true.
I spoke to her, actually for awhile…the party went on for several more hours and I continuously found myself in her vicinity looking her way. I told her friends that I found her stunning, and I decided I would ask for her number in hopes of seeing her again. As the party began to end…she was hanging around looking my way so I went up and boldly requested her info… At the time, when she responded I thought I had struck out horribly. She told me that she doesn’t date, so no I couldn’t have a number, but then proceeded to tell me where she works(retail store) and mentioned she would be there tommorrow. I thought I was done…I tried, I got shot down, I said my goodbyes.
I spoke later to her friends and was told that this is how the girl is, she is very proper, and very restrained. I asked if they thought I should drop in on her at work and they said, yes…definitely. So therein lies my dillema.
This is the strangest situation I’ve ever found myself in when pursuing a woman. I have no clue what to do next…
Do I show up feeling ackward and out of place and say hi, ask if she’d like to get a drink somewhere or whatever after work? Should I send flowers with a card? Do I try to call?
My idea is to send flowers with a card that says something like:
For: The girl that doesn’t date.
From: The guy that would like to change that.
Is that too pathetic? I really really like this girl, and even though I feel like I got shot down I want to take another go at it. I’m willing to look like a fool to get told no…I just really want a chance with this girl…what is my best chance at impressing enough on her that I’m really interested?
You have all the info…so ladies…
HELP ME
Please…
-SS
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