When Jesus is her copilot, there’s no more room in the cockpit. 
It happened to me too… Met this girl when I was working in Oshawa, she was cute, funny, and we seemed to get along well, but when she found out that I was a non-believer, poof. All interest, even feigned, was gone.
Not long afterwards, I moved to another city.
Yeah, I wasn’t throwing out conversion as a first choice. Or even a good one, given that the OP clearly has his own opinions.
Still, it’s a better option than stalking her in the hopes that she’ll come back. 
Sheesh, so pessimistic!
Justin Credible, the no contact rule is absolute gold for two reasons.
She ended it, walk away.
Anyone who chooses love with an invisible fictitious character over a REAL person is not worth your time, Justin.
That might be true, but it doesn’t change the OP’s situation. Rather the contrary. He’s even less likely to get her back if it’s such a cult.
Two pieces of advice I got years ago, not always followed, but sometimes worked:
“Unrequited anything is a pain in the ass.”
“You can talk yourself into and out of anything, including love.”
Good luck, we’re pulling for you.
Shit, man…I just read all those threads. The stuff they describe on there explains so much of her recent behavior. I’ve always felt the place sounded weird based on her descriptions, and I never got around to going to any meetings with her.
But yeah, I can imagine this is what’s behind her recent 180 in attitude. Damn. Now I’m worried about her. I wouldn’t be at all surprised if some of the other cult members have convinced her to break up with me. Ugh.
And I just remembered she’s going on a weeklong church retreat to some lake in Tennessee next week. Fuck. I wonder if another member will drown during a baptismal, which has apparently already happened twice on retreats like this.
This is it in a nutshell. Show how much you love her by giving her happiness priority over your own.
Thanks. Intellectually I know you’re right, but it’s just so hard when this all happened so suddenly to what was a fantastic relationship.
Today has been especially hard. I think I’ve been retaining some hope of her changing her mind and undoing this, but now I’m starting to realize there is no hope.
Hang in there, buddy. 
Getting your heart broken sucks. The best thing to do is to write it off. Move on. Live your life as if she’s never coming back, because 99 percent of the time, they don’t come back.
Build a new life for yourself in every aspect especially emotionally.
On the off chance she does try to come back someday, it’s best for you to have your life together emotionally and otherwise so you can decide from a secure position whether you really want her back.
^ Thank you. I know you’re right, and I hope I can get to that point. Right now I feel like the world is closing in around me and I’m suffocating. The nights are especially hard.
I know the chances of her coming back are microscopic, but I’ll still keep hoping for a while for a perfect storm of events to take place which will make it happen.
Can you tell me where to find his presentation? I searched for it but only found some site that wanted me to subscribe to read it.
+1.
There are three billion other women out there.
She left you so fuck her. The world is full of chicks. Forget her and go for the next one.
Good luck, you deserve better. By the way, converting to any religion (even a legit one) in the hopes of getting a lover back would never work. Anyone with two brains to rub together would see that it is false.
My advice FWIW: Forget about it. 7.5 months is the blink of an eye, and a year or two from now you’ll barely remember her. If she’s gone all super religious, then even if she did come back, it would be nothing but problems.
You seem very young. Trust me when I say this is not someone who will be good for you and that getting out of the relationship in so few months is a lucky break.
Justin, again, I’m sorry for the breakup, but the more I look into this, Xenos is a much a cult as any religion (large or small) is. Hipsters with religion?? HIPSTERS?? If the skinny jeans don’t fit and you hate pitchfork, I guess your an outcast. I suppose they drink decaf with organic tofu cream in it??
Some of the essays I’m reading state they are using “sect” to get away from the commonly thought cult status of smaller religions. Guess they don’t know the meaning of sect. I will admit that their bogus essays are better written than any Jeebus loving southerner, because they use commas, but that’s about it.
Honestly, Justin, I’m very sorry, but exactly what would you expect from someone as gullible as this to be in a stable relationship? I’d love to hear their views on vaccines-- no, never mind.
Does anyone remember the Moonies? Same damn thing, same control of “sheep” by some idiot labeled as a free-thinker, except THIS time, the Grand Xenos Vizier listens to Weezer and hates paying for Internet service. An ugly guy who damaged his dick through masterbation and wants payback because insurance is how the government rules you!.. or something.
Yeah, it really does seem pretty weird. I hope she is able to get out of there and find a mainstream church.
Sam, I’m 34. She’s 30. I’ve only really had three other relationships, although one of them was for almost a decade and a half.
Rose, it wouldn’t be converting so much as getting back into something that for the most part I haven’t been interested in for a while. I wouldn’t mind going somewhere now and then if I found a church I actually liked.
The OP could be in for an unpleasant surprise in another 1.5 months.