Apparently, he’s the 5th suicide in his unit. At least his commander says that life insurance will almost certainly be given. Everyone in the car and the drivers are all feeling so guilty. It’s just a nightmare.
StG
I’m so very sorry for your loss, StGermain.
Oh hell. Was he on leave, or has his unit rotated back? I suppose my larger question is: is there something we could do to reach out to the rest of the unit? They must be going through hell.
Jesus. I’m so sorry. There’s a lot of shit coming your way, try to take care of yourself as well as taking care of other people.
Thinking of you and yours today.
I am so sorry. I am sorry for your family, and I am so sorry for the people that now have to deal with hitting him.
That includes you, St. Germain. It’s easy for not-immediate family to think that their grief is less important. If you’re thinking that you need to be strong for the others, remember that that starts with taking care of yourself.
My thoughts are with you and your loved ones.
I’m so sorry for you and your family and everyone involved, StGermain.
There are no words that cover an event as tragic as this. My heart hurts for you and your family, StGermain.
I do hope you all seek some assistance to cope with your grief. It’s just too hard a road to travel alone. Experience speaking here.
I am so very sorry.
I am so very sorry.
Horrible news. Keeping a good thought for you and the rest of the family. Take care of yourself.
My sincere condolences to you and all of your family. The mere fact of it combined with the shock must be horrible beyond belief.
I am very sorry for your loss.
My condolences to you and your family.
Take gentle care of yourself, StGermain. Having had 3 suicides in my family, I know a small part of the pain you and your family is going through. Seeking help is not a weakness and may help you and your family begin to heal.
Four years ago I posted this about the suicide of my nephew Christopher.
You have my deepest sympathy, and the only advice I have for you is to give help when you can, and accept help in the spirit it is given.
My nephew was undergoing treatment for PTSD, or had completed it, I’m not sure which. He was on leave and back home trying to convince his wife to take him back. She’d left him because he was drinking heavily, to self-medicate, I suppose. She’d told him that she wasn’t going back to him. So that, combined with being in the car when he decided to jump, will weigh very heavily on her. Even though it was the right decision.
StG
I have no words, but I am full of sympathy for your and yours.
I am so sorry for the pain you and your family are going through StGermain. With a ‘natural’ death there can be closure of some sort, blaming cancer, heart disease, tragic accidents, they can all be dealt with in a better way than a suicide.
Suicide leaves the blame on those left behind, and I hope your family can come to acceptance in due course.
kam (whose husband committed suicide leaving behind four teenage kids who still bear the wounds of that tragic day over 20 years ago).
Jesus, this really hits me. I know from personal experience what mental health care in the military is like when feeling suicidal.
** St Germain** you have my condolences and a prayer for all of your family, especially those who were there. I wish I could do more…