No, I was not fucking "asking for it."

Hey, neither did the cops! But yes, I only saw her before (not drunk) and after the event (visibly upset). A friend of hers and a casual acquaintance witnessed the incident and decided to call the cops.

A friend of a friend knows the bouncer and apparently his memory of the altercation is very, very different from hers. Or, you know, he’s making shit up. He also hinted he’d make her work life hell if she tries to press charges. She’s dropping it, to the chagrin of the witnesses, but she did confess she’s got a bit more empathy now for victims of he said/(s)he said crimes, especially rape (I actually mentioned this thread to her).

Amen. It sounds like he handled this perfectly, giving you the space you needed without making the situation worse. Someone should buy him a drink.

Well, that’s true as well (a lawyer could more accurately inform her of how it would go than I).

I just assumed that Cat Fight was being honest.