Hey now! I don’t think I ever asked for SYMPATHY, I asked for advice on how to be supportive. I never whined poor me, and I don’t consider myself deserving of sympathy, so people need to stop badgering me for it.
These two things don’t go together.
Damn, you beat me.
hey-she don’t do reality.
Ok, that’s it. Honey, the *only *way to be supportive of the man whose marriage **you wrecked, who is also ** your boss is to leave. Now. Find another job immediately. Get *away *from him. Cut off all contact with him. That’s how you can be supportive, that’s how you can best help him, and, not incidentally, yourself. Then figure out why you keep doing stupid shit like this, and learn to take some responsibility for the messes you make, because you won’t have the excuse of being “young” as long as you think.
That wasn’t a ploy for sympathy, it was some context so maybe people can try to understand that I’m not some selfish jezebel bent on sexual gratification to the detriment of other people’s relationships.
And you husband didn’t mind not getting any sex? :dubious:
cite?
eta: response was to nongoog
Yes, it was. And Yes, you are.
If there’s one out there, I’m sure she’ll find it.
victim too
disinterested stranger
their own
female subordinate
Since you seem
explain the bit
Last time I tried to make a gentle suggestion, my attempts to be nonconfrontational were taken as patronizing, so I’ll stick to being direct without trying to be mean.
Spellcheck, proofread, or something.
Sailboat
How can you not characterize yourself as selfish? And you DID get sexual gratification to the detriment of other people’s relationships. On what basis can you deny any of this?
Maybe he wasn’t that good.
Regards,
Shodan
Or maybe she wasn’t.
I don’t know, maybe because she posted it on a public message board and looked for comments? It’s not like we are whispering behind her back in the office. She put it out there. Now she is getting to hear everyone’s opinion.
You’re not a selfish jezebel bent on sexual gratification to the detriment of other people’s relationships?
Well, what kind of a jezebel bent on sexual gratification to the detriment of other people’s relationships are you then?
The day I sleep with someone else’s wife and talk about it on this board in an attempt to get sympathy from strangers for it, feel free to bring this back up. Until then, you can stick your self-righteousness right up your ass. Feel free to turn it sideways first if that turns you on.
That’s the whole point of this thread - we have followed her postings, and there is a pattern. She didn’t get her ass handed to her the first couple of times she posted like this, even though right from day one I think she was pinging a lot of people’s bullshit meters.
“Whoa,” said Jesus when the crowd had brought him up to speed. “I didn’t know she’d done all that. Shit. Gimme one of those stones. Nah, bigger.”
People love to quote this; they tend to forget that after the crowd had dispersed, Jesus told the prostitute, “Go and sin no more.” In other words, “I’ve wiped your slate clean to this point – don’t screw up again.”
nongoog, it’s been said many times, in many different ways, but I think it’s true: ANY contact with this man is bad. Period. You do not need to support him through the divorce you helped cause. You do not need to use his help or influence to get another job. You need to get away from him, sever all ties, and close this messed-up chapter of your life for good. Nothing good can come of you staying in touch with him/working with him/“counseling” him. He is bad for you, and you are bad for him.