spooje, I’ll go start the low self-esteem thread elsewhere if need be. Heck, I thought that was a fairly realistic assessment of myself. If RexDart talks about fat psycho loser girls, there must be some, and I think I fit all those categories fairly well.
erislover, I’ll be happy to share in hermithood, now don’t you dare build a house within 5 miles of mine.
Hey, all these grrls getting on RexDart’s case had better find all men equally attractive and interesting regardless of physical attributes, or confess themselves all kinds of hypocrite, I don’t care which.
RD, think positive. You’ve still got years in front of you before you need to start worrying about getting saddled with some fat, whiny-assed, permanently-exhausted loser with at least four chronic ailments always on the go and extracting maximum whinge factor out of all of them plus any temporary complaint that’s going. Take the advice you’ve been given on this thread, get out there, meet people, make yourself into an interesting person, that kind of thing.
Ignore the advice about asking every cute girl you meet if she wants to fuck. For every “yes” response you’ll get, you can guarantee about 50 slaps, 20 drinks in the face, 15 knees in the nuts, ten whistles for enormous male friends to beat the crap out of you, and four arrests. The one in a hundred who’d buy a line like that would have liked you enough if you’d adopted a more orthodox and patient approach.
Best of luck, and if you must entertain preferences as to the physical types of women you find attractive or otherwise, don’t express them in a sensitive, considerate place like the Pit. :rolleyes:
Who are you to say what is and what isn’t attractive?!
I read the OP and the first thing I thought was “This guy’s gonna get ripped for trashing fat girls”. Oh fucking well if he doesn’t want a fat girl. It’s not like he’s going around pointing at people going “Ha ha! You’re fat and therefore not dateable!”
Its just his opinion. He doesn’t want to date fat girls. I’m skinny, and if he said “I don’t want a skinny girl” I wouldn’t be offended at all. My boyfriend’s told me plenty of times that he wouldn’t date a fat girl. And thats fine because I wouldn’t date a fat boy.
Another fat psycho checking in. 
I’m not sure what to think of RexDart at this point. He sounds an awful lot like an angsty teenager in serious need of something outside of his pampered suburban upbringing.
Rex, as many women have stated before… the poor, poor pitiful me thing is a HUGE turn off to women of all sizes and mental balances.
Dropping 50lbs will not make cute college girls want you.
Trust me on this one… I could DEFINITELY stand to lose 50lbs, but you know what? I’m also 24 and I’ve never hurt for beautiful men who care about me and appreciate seeing my boobies all the same. Some of those men have been chubby, some thin, some well built, the current one is a bit on the lanky side, but easily the most beautiful boy in the room most of the time.
And I have alot of girlfriends whose sentiments have almost mirrored your own. Some of them can’t seem to figure out why I get the cute guys and they get, well, nobody… despite their very obviously better body.
If you suck on the inside, there’s no magic look that will make someone fall for you.
God, I don’t even know you… but even BEFORE the “fat or psycho” bit, I knew that you’re the kind of guy I steer as clear from as possible.
As someone mentioned above, you come across like the type to be needy, jealous, possesive, etc.
It doesn’t matter what you look like, those qualities will ALWAYS be ugly enough to drive people away.
My advice? Quit spending so much time alone and concentrating on how shitty your life is and DO SOMETHING. Anything. The Peace Corps was a nice idea, really. There’s a big world on the other side of this bubble of self-pity you’re floating in.
And don’t worry about ending up with a heavier girl or a “psycho”. No one wants to be with someone who doesn’t find them attractive. By the same token, you really should consider being less vocal about your distaste… as ALOT of women (thin, heavy, perfect, etc) will immediately shut you out and consider you an insensitive prick for assuming that fat, psycho girls are somehow inferior to the rest of the population.
Good luck.
Don’t discount those who are asexual and don’t find anyone attractive.
(Okay, I’m a hypocrite. And in the meantime, I’m not worthy of being with anyone because I’m fat. Duly noted.)
It really was the context, and not the preference. I’ve never dated anyone who wasn’t regarded as attractive by most people. I don’t mean to discriminate, but I tend to go for men with great eyes, perfect smiles, excellent hygeine, etc.
I have male friends who don’t find overweight women attractive in the least and I have male friends who wont date underweight girls and it doesn’t make much of a difference… because really, you can’t help what you’re attracted to and NO ONE wants to date someone who isn’t the least bit attracted to them, right?
But his assertion that he’ll somehow bag a fat girl, despite his socially inept, self pitying world views is downright insulting. I’ve got a pretty large group of female friends… and none of them, regardless of their size, would date a boy that came off as whiny as that. That kind of insecurity is far too taxing for most women, I believe.
You think you’ve had it bad. My friend hasn’t seen female bush since 1995… and whose did he just happen to have to see? Barbara Bush’s. Now that’s a sob story.
Or, I guess it would be, if he was straight. I guess what I’m saying is: give up girls entirely if you don’t like them.
Once again, people are getting pissed because RexDart equates “fat” with “loser” and “psycho.” Now, if he had said “I prefer not to date fat girls” I don’t think anyone would have a problem.
You have to understand that there is nothing humans want more than to have sex. Even if social conventions might make someone more rigid towards the idea of casually surrendering to their desires, the root LUST is there. Its all a matter of bringing it out.
As far as resources go (money, food shelter, etc), sex is THE most plentiful and easily obtainable.
If you havent had sex by 24, well, I won’t lie - thats pathetically sad. But in a world where gender ratios are 50-50, there is no shortage of willing women to fuck (even ones that aren’t “fat” or “psycho”).
godspeed, young man.
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Bingo.
And Erislover, I just figured if RexDart doesn’t mind equating “fat” with “loser” - well, he wouldn’t mind me equating “self-pity” with “unattractive”.
I think Malkavia is the closest to my own thoughts. As a self-respecting fat chick, I can assure you that no self-respecting fat chick would ever willingly share her boobies with someone who shows such obvious disdain for both women and himself.
Good point. 
DNFTSPT
(Do Not Feed The Self-Pitying Troll)
OK fine people! Fat doesn’t mean loser!
Now let’s forget of our self-absorbtion long enough to help this poor pathetic soul.
Perhaps you should look into filing a suit under the Americans with Disabilities Act.
Wow… legislative boob action. There are worlds opening up to me!
Good God RexDart, why didn’t you hit on the girl who showed you her tits? When I look back at earlier years, I realize I missed quite a few opportunities - I bet you have too. If a girl displays the slightest interest (and they will, guaranteed) just go for it.
And a word to the wise: plump crazy girls can be a whole lot of fun.
I think it’s dumb when people come into threads like these to tell the OP that it’s his bad attitude that causes his problems.
RexDart obviously started this thread to blow off some steam about his lack of success with women. That doesn’t mean that the tone of the OP reflects his general attitude. We all have our dark moments.
Oh, come on. I am a heterosexual woman and I wanted to see naked boobies, even I know where the strip clubs were. If I wanted to get laid, I’m pretty sure I could be enterprising enough to either lavish attention on a lonley looking woman in a bar, or just avoid the uncomfortable post-coital emotional crap and get a hooker.
If you’re feeling sorry for yourself because you aren’t in a relationship, that’s another story. But the fact that you objectified this woman by fixating on her breasts and her choice to shock people with them leads me to believe that you’re mourning the lack of nakedness in your life, not the lack of a partner. Rent a porn, see some boobies and get over it.