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Hi, everyone!
The past couple of weeks have been intense, and I didn’t even lurk in/skim the last two threads. I’ve done some scrollin’ through this one, though. I actually missed y’all!
RealFish: 
On 04/22, I fired my problem employee after an unsuccessful performance improvement plan (PIP). I’ve had to lay people off before, but this was my first termination. The notification conversation was not fun, but my primary emotion the rest of that day – and week – was relief. Things got real busy real fast, though, as I had to figure out how to do all of the things she did and pick up where she left off (one of the downsides to a firing is that there’s no handoff/transition). And at the same time, I was involved with two contract-related things happening on the program; I’m still working some tasks related to one of them. All while doing my regular job. So although I wasn’t working particularly long hours, every day was literally nonstop…my multitasking skills were definitely put to the test…which meant total exhaustion by the time I logged off. I’m finally starting to get some breathing room.
A week ago, I opened the requisition to backfill my former employee: there have been lots of promising applicants, and I held the first three interviews today. I have two more tomorrow, then another three on Friday. Hopefully that will be it. 
A bunch of old-dog-related changes are coming to my house this weekend.
It has become official that no steps/ramp will work to help Bailey get on the couch: I got the most promising ramp ever, and started training her to use it (string cheese FTW), but it turns out that her back legs aren’t strong enough to support her walking up the mild incline – and she’s also not mobile enough to take it at a run, which would work. So, I’ve given up. It’s supposed to rain for pretty much the rest of May, but the next time there’s a dry Saturday I’ll put my collection of ramps and steps out on the curb. I ordered a big dog bed to put in the living room, so at least we can hang out in the same room again in the evenings (she never even tries to get on the couch anymore; it’s weird to know there’s a dog in the house but not be able to see her). It’s on backorder, but Saturday afternoon College Hunks Hauling Junk is coming out and will take away the loveseat that I never use that takes up too much space and is where I want the new dog bed to go. They will also take away my box spring and bed frame: a lower, platform-style frame is being delivered tomorrow. It’s a change I’ve been thinking about making for a long time, to help Bailey be able to get up on the bed more reliably, and I finally pulled the trigger.
In other news, I’ve decided to quit my volunteer gig in July instead of waiting until the end of the year. There are a couple of big events in June, so I’ll see them through, but then I’m out. I’m just done with so much of my spare time/energy being taken up by that stuff. There have been a lot of leadership changes in the past few months – just this morning a fellow committee chair resigned – and I hate the idea of piling on, but I gots ta go. These days I actually dread dealing with all of it, and I’m not getting paid enough to be stressed.
Happily, though, in addition to volunteer events June will also bring a mini-vacation: I’m taking my favorite cousin to a Michael Jackson tribute show (she’s a huge MJ fan), and from the show we’re going straight to the Jersey shore for two nights. I booked a beach-adjacent 2BR on Airbnb. I’ll be driving up on a Thursday and coming home on Sunday but also taking the next day off work, so it should be a nice little break.
Time for dinner. I’m hoping to be more interactive again later this week. 