[OLD] Have As Good A New Monday MMP As Possible

Last night’s work dinner was really nice. It was a small group – just five of us – and except for 5-10 minutes of shop talk it was three hours of bullshitting about random topics. We all get along well, which I’m grateful for, and most of us have been on the program together for the past 3+ years. The food was alright, too: I got a 6 oz filet mignon that wound up being slightly overcooked (based on the server’s description I ordered medium-well but should have just gotten medium) but was still quite edible. And it was free, which helped it taste better. :grin: I didn’t get home until nearly 9pm, but Bailey had survived my absence and we were able to chill on the couch for a couple hours before I went to bed.

My sympathies to everyone dealing with GERD! I’m so glad that the gastric bypass surgery cured my acid reflux. Sometimes I forget that I ever had it, but I took a Nexium every morning for 1-2 years (and before I discovered Nexium, I think I was single-handedly keeping the maker of Tums in business).

Work and volunteer stuff are both quiet today (so far! :crossed_fingers: ), and I’m grateful to have no meetings or other plans. Sometime after work I’ll finish getting organized for tomorrow’s event – finalize what I’ll be bringing, in addition to the tent – and I’m hoping I might even be able to put everything in the car before the forecasted rain starts. Or maybe between showers. The rain is supposed to end “early” tomorrow, which will be perfect because I’m planning to get to the place and start setting up at 11:30am. Sometime today I also need to decide which songs I’d like to sing at tomorrow night’s piano bar. And even though I’ll pick ones that I’ve been singing for years and know very well, I should probably practice a little since I haven’t performed anything in 7 months. Maybe at least make sure I still remember the lyrics. :slight_smile:

I honestly wasn’t sure if I’d enjoy the experience…I anticipated a lot of cussing, too! But I wound up only swearing once or twice (after dropping tiny pieces, or realizing I’d put something together wrong), and overall it was fun. I went to Paris with some friends in 2017, and bought us all LEGO Eiffel Tower sets before the trip: my box had been gathering dust on a closet shelf, but when I finished the jazz quartet I moved it to the “assembly” table. Almost six years later, I might actually finally put it together!

For me, that always means it’ll be junk mail. :slight_smile:

Me, too!! It’s so weird! I’ve spent most of the morning sneezing/blowing my nose. Quite unusual for me.

:astonished:

Same here…I have weights for the tent (for tomorrow afternoon’s outdoor event), but I’m still a little concerned. I worked an event last summer on a day that was super windy, with the same tent, and it was not fun.

Holy crap. I’m so sorry. :people_hugging:

last night i started building the cool little book case things i bought. of course it ended up backwards and upside down.

somehow in the midst of it, i decided it was friday night. i was not happy this morning.

i ended up having to go back to the eye doctor this morning. they gave the wrong prescription for glasses. i waited 20 minutes for it to print out. a large print job was going through the printer.

good thing i checked, as i am going to visionworks for new glasses on sat. morning. due to my thinking it was friday night, i was getting my “going on a shopping trip” bag together and checked the prescription.

tonight i will build the second wee bookcase. this time i have a plan and will not have to take it apart a few times before getting it correct.

Despite SSLAW #1 going down more than the Mustang Ranch Employee of the month, it was a good heave in Smalls. Then I went over to help in 69. I walked/hitched a lift from a co worker/rode the bus to the store then home. Laundry is going while I nap.
Boy, that’s a lot of adulting for one day.

I do Prilosec for mine.

{{{{FCM and Taz}}}}

{{{{{wordy}}}}}

What’s especially cool about them?

I quite literally LOL’d.

Not much we can say or do besides offer support and {{hugs}}. There is no good way off this planet, but everybody has to leave it much too soon.

Wishing you and Mom the strength and wisdom under fire to make the best of a bad situation.

Amazon.com: VECELO 3-Cube Small Bookshelf, Modern Bookcases with Shelves Height Up to 12.8 Inches, Suit for Common Size Textbook, Vertical or Horizontal, Cubby Storage Organizer,Black : Home & Kitchen

i got 2 of the above. for the back i attached some wicked cool peel and stick wall paper. this is one of them.

Cozy Cats’ Den Wallpaper | Spoonflower

Hey, those ARE pretty neat!

Seconded! :smiley:

I’m happy to report that the knee is much better today. Woo-hoo! I’m going to the gym, but just to do weight work. Then I’ll walk to my heart’s content.

I thought about trying to take a bus to Costco so I could use some coupons that I can’t use with Instacart, as well as my cash-back bonus. But it turns out to be a long ride and a walk in an area I’m not sure has sidewalks, so I gave up.

FCM, ticks are ick. Fingers crossed for no Lyme Disease, though I understand that it’s very responsive to antibiotics if they’re started right away. (I asked my doc once when I had a target rash which turned out to be something else.) Also, I hope Taz is just having an off day and that there’s life in the old kitty yet.

I see you knew my mother. :slight_smile:

wordy, I’m sorrier than I can say. I feel like we’ve all come to know your mom through your posts, and I like her a lot. Try not to think too far ahead, at least until you know if this new treatment will give her more time. {{{{wordy}}}}

That was, uh, nice of you. I hope you found it…satisfying.

Oops! Phone!

Yaay!!!

I swear you’re determined to damage that knee. Just because it doesn’t hurt for 24 entire hours is not the time to run the damn thing ragged. Take it easy woman!

If I had a nickel for every time I said that to my late first wife I could buy a lot of Starbucks. Being enthusiastic and energetic is good. Beating enthusiastically on your own weakened parts is not.

Be careful out there dear. We don’t want to have to send out a search party to find you by the roadside wherever you’ve broken down. Really and truly we don’t.

no offense but I think that’s due to all your job and other stress…

You are just the sweetest guy! The doc said as soon as the shot kicked in, I could do any activity I want. In fact, when I asked about resting it, he said that’s not a good idea. Something about moving the joint being good for it. Normally on weight-training days, I hop on the gym treadmill and crank up the incline, but I don’t think I want to do that right now because it seems a little extreme. I thought walking would be better.

Right now I wish I could quit dealing with the Chicago Tribune and get out of the damned apartment. I’m trying to order a book that has all the Tribune front pages for my brother and sister-in-law’s anniversary day and month. The process is simple, but I want it shipped to my sister in Elmhurst, since it’s from her, too, and I’ll be staying with her before we all go up to my brother’s place. One less thing to pack, right? But though I put in her name and address in the Ship To place, it insists on putting MY name and her address. Her PO is picky and returns parcels and letters willy-nilly. But there’s no way to change the name/shipping address! None! I finally called the Tribune customer service, but the woman couldn’t help me and said to call the main number. There’s no option for the book sales department, and saying “Speak to a representative,” “Book sales department” or “Something else” don’t work. I give up. I think my sister will have to order it, and she’s a procrastinator.

Sorry for the rant. And thank you so much for being so concerned.

Well, that didn’t go as planned. I was on the way to breakfast when my daughter called me in tears asking if I could go to her house because she couldn’t leave work. SIL has depression, and it was particularly bad today. When I got there, he was loading the kids in the car to take Roxy to school, but when I approached and took Tobias, he broke down in tears - great heaving sobs. FCD pulled up a minute or two later, and came and talked to SIL while I belted Roxy in his car.

FCD took Roxy to school, and I told SIL to go inside. He started crying again, telling me he was a bad father and he had thought about killing himself. I have no idea how to deal with a depressed person, so I just hugged him and told him he wasn’t a bad dad. I got him to go back to bed, and I stayed the day to watch Tobias. FCD was going to take the boat himself, but he decided to reschedule it for Moanday, and he went home.

SIL stayed in his room pretty much the whole day, tho I did hear him go into the bathroom once. I did some of their laundry, cleaned the house a little, and wrangled Tobias, then picked up Roxy. Daughter got home shortly thereafter. She texted me later that SIL was no longer feeling suicidal and he was hungry, which is a good sign that he’d gotten over the worst of it.

I don’t know a lot about depression, but I did read on the Mayo Clinic site that exercise is good for controlling symptoms. I suggested to my daughter that she get him out walking 3 or 4 days a week - and I hope she’ll contact his therapist and let her know what happened. He seemed genuinely terrified that he’d hurt his kids. I just felt helpless.

On the plus side, my car just needed the oil changed - nothing else. Whew! I’m home, ready for some hard-core chillage. And I haven’t read yet - I’ll get caught up a little later.

What a day…

My professional and personal experience agrees.

I’m hoping the shot works as well for your knee as it did for mine. The doc said it might be up to two weeks for it to take effect but as I remember I could clearly tell it was reducing pain within 3-4 days and had lovely relief at about a week post shot. Of course, in the same breath he exhorted me to keeping moving the knee and using it, as that would help the cortisone be distributed and work sooner and better. I’m hoping you have the same good results.

I’ll be ok as long as my knees take turns and don’t both go berserker! at the same time.

I’ll probably be read-only here for a few days. Cruel dental pain but my dentist of 35 years is out of the state for several weeks and the soonest I could get an emergency appt with one of his colleagues in the practice is next Thursday, a full week for an established patient who is in eye-watering pain. I think it is an upper molar that needs a root canal and crown. As painful as it is it may be infected and need antibiotics.

I’m leery of picking a dentist off of google. I worry about jacked up costs and being taken advantage of as well as not knowing who is a quality provider, which isn’t necessarily the practice with the jazziest web site.

Trying to muddle through alternating acetaminophen with NSAIDs every 3 hours. Often that last hour of wait is humbling. I have an old partial script of oxycodone left over from a surgery three years ago when it is at the worst. Whether I can make that last for a week is the big question.

I know better than to go to urgent care or the ER for pain relief. Nowadays everyone is a drug seeker and I’d be sent home to take ……acetaminaphen alternating with OTC NSAIDs. Their suspicion and scorn would be as bad as the pain. I already talked to my pharmacist and got the precise low down on dosages and timing, sans scorn and suspicion.

I have an ice pack chilling in the freezer for when I wanna cry or I need help waiting out that last hour of the 3 hours with a soupçon of dignity. Had to cancel my literacy teaching this morning and my haircut appt this afternoon, so you know it’s bad.

Push comes to shove I have an after hours emergency number for the practice that they gave me when they gave me the pain appt a week out. How exactly that is supposed to work I don’t know-how does the on call/after hours dentist find an appt for you when supposedly the entire practice of 16 dentists did not have a single opening for a week? Somebody light a candle for me to whoever is the patron saint of dental agony. And sent a therapy puppy STAT-my cat couldn’t care less.

{{{{{{{ to all of you who are dealing with much worse than this }}}}}}

Howdy Y’all! Got some stuff done to the cee-mint pond and it’s lookin’ better. It will be ready for use soon, not that I want to get in it yet as is still a bit too chilly for my taste. I usually wait until May before gettin’ in, but who knows. Maybe April will be warmer than usual. Nappage and the usual sloth were also achieved, as well as day drinkin’. Sup got fixed and et and the kitchen is all cleanded up. Now chill/sloth continues.

{{{Wordy}}} here’s hopin’ for the best outcome possible for your mom.

{{{Boo}}} hope you can get relief soonest.

MOOOOOOM I am sure I’ve mentioned this before, but I deal with depression. Fortunately a combo of meds, some exercise (fresh air and a walk is good), and therapy help. It’s been several years since I have had a severe bout. I have my downer days, but they are few and far between.

Nellie I’d be frustrated about that book as well. How hard could it be to address a label with the name and address of the person to whom the book is bein’ sent?

Oopsie glad you had a good time last night. Here’s hopin’ the weather cooperates tomorrow.

RealFish mounds brownies intrigue me. Do tell. I gave up chawklit for Lent and so far I have been a good bear. Just gotta hang in there eight more days now. Hope the car woes get sorted out.

Niner cee-mint pond is what I call the pool. It comes from The Beverly Hillbillies. I am ancient and decrepit, so I remember when the show was a prime time teevee show.

56 new posts in this thread when I checked in – just skimmed through them, without really reading any. But I saw enough to say this:
[{{{{Everybody who needs them!}}}}}
(Or even just wants one.)



Currently 46, which is the predicted low for tonight. (Today’s high was supposed to be 47, tomorrow’s should be around 59.) Supposed to be raining from now through Sunday night.

Lady SCAdian and I went to SubVets for lunch – first time since pre-plague days. Happy to say their SubVet Burger is still the best burger in town. Then we went to the Exchange and cashed in 383 empty bottles and cans at five cents each. On the way home we stopped and picked up some mulch for the strawberries she planted this morning - we now have four 4’x8’ raised beds and a 2’x4’ one, plus the planters on the porch.

boo the dentist’s colleagues should prescribe abx. Pain like that usually means infection.

Got my new car and got home just as the downpour started and the tornado watch went into effect.

Oh, FCM, I’m so sorry that SIL suffers so badly. I’m very familiar with depression, having suffered for at least 30 years. I’m also dealing with CtE having depression bad enough that they have had difficulty going to school. But what you did, hugging him, taking care of things around the house, watching Tobias, are all the exact right things, as is reminding him he’s not a bad dad. He probably didn’t believe you when you said it, because it’s so tough to believe anything good about you. But continuing to remind him does help for the good times when the depression isn’t so deep. The only thing I would have suggested was checking on him periodically since he expressed suicidal ideation. Not that he necessarily will harm himself, but if he chooses to, getting to him and getting him help sooner is better then later.

Exercise had definitely been a help for me. Before my fall last week where I hurt my knees, I was out walking 2 miles a day and it definitely helped. It may not always - depression is a seriously bad roller coaster and things that work one time may not work the next. I’m glad that he and daughter are taking care of it instead of ignoring it, and that they have you and FCD at their backs.

{{{ FairyChatFamily}}}

Boo, I am so sorry that your pain is so intense. I’m a master of dental pain (because I was a bad little fish that didn’t care for her teeth) so I do know that pain. One of the things that strangely worked for me when I had to wait was a used Tea bag. I put it over the area and, I don’t know the science whys, but it did make me feel better. Also check with the emergency dentist to see if they can send an antibiotic in for you ahead of time so any infection can be cleared (or mostly) before you have to have something done with the tooth itself.

Don’t think of it that way, hon. We are all dealing with things that are heavy regardless of what others think. Dental pain is some of the worst there is. You deserve a meant his as the rest of us.

{{{Boo}}}

Oh, they are very simple to make. A family sized box of brownie mix, baked in a 9x13 pan according to box directions. Allow to cool fully. In a separate bowl, mix 5 cups of shredded sweetened coconut with 14 oz of condensed milk and 1 cup of powdered sugar until combined. Spread it over the top of the brownies. Then take a container of chocolate frosting and melt it until it’s pourable (it took me about 30 seconds). Pour that atop the coconut mixture and spread it out to the edges. I haven’t tried it yet - I made it for MFN and his roommates so I won’t get to try any until I give them puppy dog eyes when I bring it by tomorrow morning. But it’s supposed to taste just like a mounds bar.

It hadn’t started here yet but it’s looking nasty. Here’s hoping that none of us actually have any touchdowns.

Thankee. Much appreciated.

I finally heard from Dad about the SNF. They ARE sending him to the one over here that he’d been at last time. They had him going to dialysis at the hospital and then they are transporting him to the SNF. I asked him to message me when he got there. I’m stopping by after I help MFN get his car and after I get Hubby’s meds, mainly to check on him. After that is big grocery shopping, since Hubby’s check is supposed to drop tomorrow.

Sunday, I’m driving to his place early in the morning to get the various things he needs from home for his stay. Then I’ll stop by to help get him set up, visit a bit and then head home to get Hubby for a Meet Up at a local arcade. If I’m lucky, I’ll get a chance to play my new DC Deck Builder game before the weekend is over.

{{{All the mumpers, near and far, regardless of your frustrations}}}

According to the WGN weather app, the storm is right over my house. Thunder and lightning abounds.