Part 1 - just to shut you people up! 
My last post last week was less than happy – I was aggravated at the kids for a variety of things that I’m not going to go into. That was Thursday. On Friday, the groom-to-be was dealing with some stuff elsewhere, so the three of us continued packing, sorting, and tossing stuff. Daughter got rid of the Goodwill stuff and picked up her dress so I could iron it. I also ironed my dress and the veil. **FCD ** was cramming more than I thought possible into the van. He also decorated the groom’s cake, with one minor mishap – he dropped one of the icing tubes in the middle of the cake and smooshed the frosting. But he mostly hid it.
His folks arrived late that afternoon, and my wonderful MIL brought sammich makings so we didn’t have to go out to eat. She also helped me cut up veggies and clean up the kitchen. We gave her most of the food left in the fridge and the pantry, since there was no way we could bring it all back with us and she could make use if it, so yay!
Saturday, we were up bright and early to grab breakfast before heading over to the UCF arena for graduation. We got in there before 8 for a graduation that wasn’t scheduled till 9. But we did get great seats – the graduates walked across the stage towards us. They weren’t lined up in any order, and we didn’t see our kid process in, so we had to pay attention to make sure we’d see her.
I couldn’t believe it but as some people saw their grads, they got up and left. I had visions of idiots in the rows in front of us standing to let people out and making us miss our kid. Fortunately, that didn’t happen. The big-mouthed idiot next to me, who made at least 4 phone calls during the ceremony, was standing to leave just before her name was called, but something kept him in place till we got to watch her walk across the stage. So we sat there for about 3 hours for a 5-6 second stroll. And our baby is a graduate. And no pics - I forgot my camera. Boo.
After the ceremony, we went home and got comfy, then went to Smoky Bones for lunch. Afterwards, we had some time to continue packing and cleaning before going to the rehearsal.
Since we didn’t pay for the venue for a rehearsal, we paced it out in the back yard of the Mrs. of Honor (she didn’t want to be called a Matron) to get our timing matched to the music. They chose an approach I’d never seen before, but it worked out well. First the mother of the groom entered, then I came in, then the groomsmen, the groom, the bridesmaids, and the bride with FCD. There was one song for the mothers and the guys, then another for the wimmins, and they were well-chosen. We did about 4 or 5 run-thrus before declaring that we had it nailed and heading back home to dress for the rehearsal dinner.
The dinner was held in a Greek restaurant (The Olympia on Colonial, for you Orlandoans) and turns out we were the last to arrive, even tho we were there before the announced start time. Over the course of the evening, there were 3 belly dancers who dragged various and sundry patrons to dance with them. No, I did not get dragged, which is a good thing – I was too tired and in a semi-party-poopy mood. I did wander about and chat up my kid’s future inlaws. I also talked with my daughter a bit – we had a few issues to iron out, and we did. My FIL was hurting, so we left after a couple of hours.
Wedding tale next. Later. When I write it up and upload the pics.