who is confused, the woman or her mother?
I feel bad for families that have to confront these circumstances. My father’s best friend is a religious man. This man has three sons, the youngest is gay. The father & his wife warmly accept & welcome the wives & families of their older sons. The youngest son (who is now at least 40 yrs old) never has an easy time of it when he wants to visit and bring his partner with.
His dad feels like the son is shoving his “lifestyle choice” in his face.
The son just wants to feel accepted and loved for who he is and in the same measure as his sibs. Sucks all around.
Isabelle If your friend’s daughter is a lesbian, your friend is going to have a really rough time. I know that there are Christian organizations out there that support gays, lesbians and their families. PFLAG is great, but might be over the top for your friend, esp at first.
I’d see if I could find any contact info for those Christian resources.