You waxed your pubic triangle or your nutsack? I ask because my wife has jokingly suggested I wax my nuts so I don’t have to shave them every week, thinking I’d run in terror at the mere suggestion.
I’d be more inclined to get both of us lasered, but I’m wondering what you actually did.
Both. I figured, what the hell; right ? Since I was at it and there were some wax strips left… Besides, I had a manhood to prove ! To myself. Through extremely gay means. That left me whimpering like a little girl.
I think it all boils down to how jaded one is. When making love isn’t enough anymore, people want something off beat visually or in any new sensory or sensual capacity. I tend to think the shaved contingent have had too much cynical influence and years and partners invested in sex that they see it as an erotic enhancement or something “different”…actually I think the bald head fashion or trend in men shaving their heads starting around the 90’s kind of coincided with the bald pussy phenemenon… perhaps women wanted to masculinize their pussies in a cynical, reflexive, and mirrored response… after all, long hair is the providence of women
If people didn’t care it would default to the state that takes the least trouble, ergo bush. People prefer shaved so that’s what they get. I prefer shaved, same reason i like shaved legs and armpits: smooth soft skin is feminine and sexy, body hair is not.
Yea, that’s also because the butt floss thong underwear also started to take hold in the 90’s along with the male baldness pattern, shaved pussies, a movement in the porn/erotica industry. So, perhaps form follows function here. Not to mention french and Brazilian cut bikinis.
You might think it is a conscious choice, but you are dismissing the counterculture influences… You have a neo-hippy pussy of the new millenium if you shave. You have a hipster pussy.
As one who used to get waxed pretty often (and yes, it does get less painful the more often you do it), I’d have to say that I can go either way really. An ex-lover of mine requested that I be entirely bare save a little tuft up top. I thought it was mostly just visually appealing for him but he later told me that it was more hygienic and comfortable (as it relates to friction). Waxing can be enormously expensive at anywhere between 50 and 70 dollars a pull, so now that I’m single I just shave to keep things neat. I prefer to leave a “landing strip” because it’s a good halfway point for any, errr, interested parties…
I guess this is just a problem with our youth, they have no historical perspective, as they are all quite autistic and sheltered in their ignorance. You think you like all that rap and hip hop bullshit because of no reasons, popular and historical? You think shaving is the norm? You forget, because of the trail of all the freaks that came before you blazed, and "normalized " shaved pubes and rap… you have no true perspective or touchstone let alone reason to the robotic shit you are compelled to do by many historical social influences, customs, and taboos. You are all children of Pop denying your mothers and fathers.
I prefer shaved for porn – I like to see the goods. Frex, Carolyn Ducey in Romance had a totally unshaved bush that was so thick and so extensive that she might as well have been wearing a bikini bottom throughout the movie … the old fashioned kind, that goes almost up to the belly button. And some of the old seventies porn turned me totally off unshaved bush, those tangles of dark hair looked really unhygienic to me. Ugly, even.
In real life, it’s your genitals, decorate them as you like.
I agree that they are your parts and you should adorn them as you prefer them.
But insofar as the thread started out as an aesthetic appreciation poll/query… the delta triangle of hair affects me visually more than the presence and shape of breasts. I can adapt to it not being there, but then I could become involved with a breast cancer survivor who had no breasts. It’s not a dealbreaker in the sense that I’d avoid getting involved but there would always be a recurrent sadness that something I like so much, something I appreciate so much sexually, is gone.