My now former husband moved out last Friday.
What was ending on a positive note finished with extreme acrimony.
Right now, he doesn’t want to talk with me. Maybe he will never talk with me again.
I had no idea this was coming. I thought with the couple’s counseling that we had made major progress. Within two weeks, we’re not married, he’s in a new apartment, and I feel like to focus of major anger.
Don’t get me wrong, I know that I did things wrong just as he did. I know I didn’t deserve this. But I also have no control over his leaving and feel I have little control to the outcome.
How do I deal with this? I’ve been soul searching. It has been very rough. Sleeping alone after two and a half years has been weird and well… I have not slept well in days.
I am hoping, with the board populated with people wiser than me, that someone on here can give me some idea of not only where to go from here, but what the process can be like.
This was my first long term relationship, and the first time I have lived with someone. Starting over is hard, especially when one isn’t healthy.
Thanks in advance for any advice.