Mmk, I’ve read this thread for a while now, and damn me, but I’m adding.
My boyfriend was pleasantly suprised to find out I swallow, and enjoy it (mostly just feeling him cum, but the taste isn’t all bad either) and anyone else I know who asks (hey, I’m in high school, it comes up in conversation and I’m frighteningly honest…eep…) finds out, and the guys tend to get jealous.
My ex, on the other hand, tasted kinda funky, and I was pleasantly suprised when I found out my current guy tastes just fine.
On the sad side, I have a very small mouth, so I can’t get much of him in my mouth. Any … tips? (dang I wish I could have thought of a better word)
I bet they do! So, how many of them have said to you, “Hey, when you get tired of him,…”?
And, yeah, I’d have to agree with both Musicat and Priceguy. It doesn’t sound like a real problem, to me. Just a problem of perception. Deepthroating isn’t required, or even necessarily all that different. It’s the tongue and lips that get the job done.
I do disagree that guys can’t tell the difference between lips and hands, though. At least, I could, with the women I’ve experienced.
Nope. A lot of porn shows hands-free oral, too. So, it must be a reasonably common desire. On the other…umm…hand…I suspect that it’s probably considerably more difficult for the ladies performing the act. So, I don’t expect it.
or is it like say you have altoids in your mouth and then go down and have oral and then blow and its cool… tingly…is it like that… like cold metal feeling?
Well, I have read this entire thread in one sitting. I didn’t get much work done today!
I’ve always been a swallower. It never occurred to me to spit it out. Guys all taste a little different to me, depending on their diet, but none have ever grossed me out. I like something to drink after, too. (A Bud Light, please, Dave Bear?) There is a residual taste. My WAG is that acidic drinks like OJ act against the base of the cum. But that could be totally off. Any docs know the acidic content of jizz?
I want to comment on the power play. I always feel like I am in power over him! I control when he cums, I control the speed , the stroke, the amount of teasing. He’s not dominating me! But don’t grab my head, or I will stop, as it makes me feel panicky.
And a comment on the hands on theory: if you don’t hold on to it, it could slip out, and teeth rake it. I like to have firm control over it.
And as for the taste of me on him—I love to go down on him after he has blown my mind with intercourse…he loves to finish in my mouth. And I think I taste pretty good! (But I have gone down on some women, too.)
I neither spit nor swallow. I have a very very powerful gag reflex, and so oral sex is a no-go in the marriage.
(How powerful, you ask? When I had my wisdom tooth yanked, the doctor tried to put a piece of gauze under the tooth to catch any fragments that might come off - a small piece of gauze. I almost threw up because of the gag reflex.)
Not to mention that I despise oral sex. I do not care for giving it (although I sometimes find a way to be creative, if I’m feeling extra generous), but my bigger gripe is that I really really hate receiving it.
I guess my husband likes giving it, since I frequently have to stop him because it just totally turns me off.
Sapphire Wolf, you wouldn’t happen to be married to a friend of mine in Richmond? Man, do I hear about that, and no offense but his friends probably do too.
It does hold one’s attention, doesn’t it? Pours a Bud Light for the lady. Do you pefer a big head on it?
Hey, in my book, a woman who gives head AND chose Dolores Claiborne as her namesake can do just about anything she wants! You want to be in control? You got it!
I’ve heard that one, before. Any idea why it makes you panicky?
Gotta love a woman who can match me for wanton lust. I find that very sexy.
Care to share a creative idea, or two, in the interest of fighting ignorance (and dull sex lives)? I suspect some of the folks reading, but not posting to, this thread would appreciate it.
What is it about it that turns you off, I you don’t mind me asking?
Why thank you. I think. In the meantime, I’d like an unsweetened iced tea, no lemon.
:o Ermmm…I’ll be honest. For me, it’s creative. For anyone else, it’d warrant an eye roll or five (along with a, “You call THAT creative?”). It’s nothing mind blowing. So, if it’s all the same, I’ll plead the Fifth.
I’m not sure. It just…it doesn’t do anything for me except incite a small bit of panic and a larger amount of annoyance. And it really kills the mood for me.
I really hate to admit it, but I did not see that one coming. Guess it’s just been my name for sooo long.
And No, there is no head for the Metal Man. I tried, I really did (and she always swallows btw). Even tho she pulls her teeth back as much as possible, there’s a lot of loose skin on a penis, and some of it inevitably pushes up against her teeth and touches metal. It’s in general just an uncomfortable sensation, and once or twice there was a full-fledged ouchie!
I have a zero-tolerance policy on pain in the genital region.
Plus, we’re in a big argument because I thought she was absolutely beautiful with an overbite. That surely argument won’t help me get head. But that’s a whole other thread that I’ll never start.
So, how many of them have said to you, “Hey, when you get tired of him,…”?