It depends. I’m happy to stay there for as long as it takes, but bear in mind I wont be able to keep you in my mouth the whole time, cos it is an unusual angle for my jaw to be at, and after a while it does ache. If you’re happy with me switching to my hands and maybe just licking the head occasionally while I rest my jaw, then I’m quite happy to let it go on as long as you want.
But I know for some men stoping or changing like that can interrupt the “build”.
There is the out-of-practice thing too. My blokey lives in Ireland, while I’m in London, we get to see each other about once a month, so I don’t get much chance to pracitce, and before I met him I was pretty much chaste for 2 years. So yeah, I’m a little rusty, but hey, as soon as I get hold of him permenently I’m gonna be brushing up on old skills sommink chronic!
However, the main thing that will make me stop if it’s taking a while is that I just get too goddam horny, and I have to get him inside me now!
Nah, the novelty of rattling the thing against your teeth wears off pretty quick, and the way my tongue sits in my mouth (which I would imagine is just the same way as anyone elses) means that it’s not in permanent contact with my teeth. I know lots of people who have multiple tongue piercings, and they don’t seem to have any problem.
It really depends on the guy’s size (bigger can leads to more jaw ache), how much the woman is enjoying it, how the guy behaves (ie my ears are not handles !!!)…
Also I’ve never timed it either (for the same reasons as you) and I have a horrible sense of time without a clock beside me…
Actually, I did a thread on this about a while back (okay, about a year ago, but still). It was while I was still new to the whole experience, and my short timedness was a bit of a worry to me. The general concensus was: It all depends.
As with everything else, it’s one of those personal preference/why you’re doing it kinda thing. For those who do it because they like pleasing their man, there’s no time. Quick is good, long is good, so long as he enjoys it and is appreciative, that’s all that matters. For those with TMJ and those that don’t like it, the quicker the better. For those that really enjoy it, the longer they can make it last, the better. One girl claimed to be able to keep her guy going for FOUR HOURS!!. From what I gathered, it should last 1) as long as it takes, 2) till her jaw starts hurting, 3) till she’s bored with it, or 4) as Tir Tinuviel puts it, “I just get too goddam horny, and I have to get him inside me now!”
As for the direct comments towards me, I’m 24. As for the other thing, I got the hint the first time, but trust me, it’s not advice I should take. We’ve been down that road before, and it just caused problems.
As for the hands on the head thing, I like to put my hands on the side of the head, but not necessarilly on the back. I like keeping the hair out of the way, but trying to shove a woman’s head down just doesn’t seem like a very bright move when there’s teeth encircling my cock. Occassionally, I’ll thrust my hips, but I’m pretty keen on talking, and don’t mind making requests. Plus, it’s always a good idea to say pleasant things at this point. She’s doing me a great service, the least I can do is show my gratitude.
And in terms of the tongue stud, I’ve never gotten a bj from a girl with one, but Tir Tinuviel’s comments about the sub zero temperatures just gave me horrible flashbacks to the flagpole scene in A Christmas Story. :eek:
I haven’t seen it, but I assume someone get their tongue stuck to an icy flagploe then?
I can’t see that happening with the tongue stud, it only stays cold for a second. I was more commenting that in temperatures like that, most blokes don’t want to flop it out to let me experiment! heh!
:eek: I thought the fangs were just decorative. But, it was the stud, and particularly the ring in the tip of the tongue, I was referring to. I’ve just got to experience that at least once before I die.
Actually, I don’t know if I’d do them any good. With my lack of recent exposure, I might not last 20 seconds. But, I’d be willing to give it my best shot.
Nope, they’re permanent crowns. Result of an interesting rendevous with a dentist some 7? 8? years ago. Solid titanium with a ceramic veneer. Pretty bloody sharp too!
That’s why I made the comment about them not getting in the way, it’s not as if I can take 'em out!
Time is relative… if we’re going for a mid afternoon quickie while the kid is asleep then time is of the essence… if she’s at the babysitter’s and we have a few hours well…
So the jist of it is he lasts as long as I want him to… I’ve learned over time what to do to speed things up or slow things down. We’re not college kids anymore! Sex of all kinds matures with age and familiarity and the ability to say “no dear a little to the left” (among other things
Oh and on a side note I have noticed there is a certain crew of regulars in this thread and we all read it between 8 and 9 ish
Umm…I didn’t say removable. (BTW, you’re gonna be one hell of a scary 80 year old.) You were kind of implying they were usable for some kind of sex play. Or, was I misreading that?
