Yes, but don’t worry about it. Those who don’t agree respect other’s opinions, here. And, those who find it a turn-on are jotting your username down on their notepads. Personally, I find the attitude very sexy, even if I’ve never tried the actual act.
Sex Play… sort of… they’re really a little to sharp to do anything more then just apply very gentle pressure, and I wouldn’t apply them down there anyways!
I have had (and still do frequently) a lot of blokes ask to be bitten, but I’ve never met one that wanted me to clamp down on his cock! :eek: The biting request is normally the second thing blokes ask me after first meeting me, the first question is always “do they get in the way?” Honestly, you men! :rolleyes:
When a guy’s drunk it’s always too long. I won’t even flirt with someone when he’s drunk. Tired’s another story. I can’t avoid having sex with a tired person once in a while. If one or both of us is having trouble getting into it there’s no way I’m going to labour over his dick like it’s my mission. What kind of creepy guy would enjoy that?
More than one person in this thread has mentioned boundary issues and I have a lot of them too. I manage them by never ever doing anything I don’t enjoy. If men did things they didn’t enjoy because they wanted to keep a woman satisfied they’d have boundary issues too! Once a year or so I’ll do a ‘favour’ but I know that doing something out of a feeling of obligation will trigger issues for me. I never want to feel like sex is a way of earning affection. If I felt that way even one time things would fall apart in the oral sex department. I’m pretty careful about not doing anything that isn’t fun.
Davebear, you already welcomed me. I already have a hot chocolate right here but I NEED COOKIES.
[hijack] Ohhhhhhhhhhh biting - now thats something I really like and I have no idea why but yummmmmmmmmmm (but not too hard - well maybe, we’ll see as we go along :D)[/hijack]
Yes it is… I really have to stop reading this thread first thing in the morning when I get to work. I think it’s having a negative impact on my “productivity” (to say the least)…
And posts like these aren’t helping me much either!!
sorry for posting pointless drivel, I just felt I needed to say something…
some more thoughts.
i don’t actually mind my head being pushed, or his fingers in my hair, because my hand are free and i can push his arms if i need to, but i CANNOT have his hands anywhere near my neck (bad past experiences have lead to an all-out phobia) at all.
kneeling, sitting, lying, whatever, i’m quite happy, although i prefer the angle when i’m kneeling, rather than the 69 type angle.
one thing i CANNOT stand is the thing where you lie on your back and hang your head over the edge of the bed, while he stands in front. being dizzy and choking simultaneously is not pleasant!
how long is too long depends on my mood, if i’m tired, the position i’m in, and how turned on i am. sometimes 5 minutes is too long, sometimes 1/2 an hour isn’t long enough.
Davebear, may i have black russian with a guinness head please? i’m awfully sober and thirsty.
one thing i CANNOT stand is the thing where you lie on your back and hang your head over the edge of the bed, while he stands in front. being dizzy and choking simultaneously is not pleasant
Yeah that dizzy feeling is decidedly unpleasant. You see all the wrong kinds of stars!