And I, on the other hand, am heading for bed.
Yes, taste and smell enter into the whole pleasure equation.
And hopefully I’ve understood better this time too 
(this could be considered TMI so if you’re squeamish about butch dykes or any kind of D/s relationship I advise you to READ NO FURTHER
Well, it’s a complicated issue, and this is just my opinion… ask 20 people and you’ll get 20 different answers.
I enjoy it because I can see my partner gets off on it. I also enjoy it as an act of submission to my partner. I don’t especially like the taste of rubber/silicon or the feeling of being about to gag, but i enjoy the intimacy of it, and what it symbolises.
If I’m getting my (strapped on) cock sucked, I like the power dynamic of it. Also, if you’ve got a good imagination, you can almost feel it and it feels damn good 
Does that answer the question? I can go into more detail if you really want…
Thanks for the Coke, Davebear.
Into the wilderness we go, indeed!
I think so. You’re saying it’s not the physical sensation, it’s the context, that supplies the enjoyment. That makes sense. That’s a big part of it, when dealing with the real thing, too, according to many of the posts in the thread that prompted this one. I was just wondering if it was like some of the posts in that thread, where some people said they liked the physical aspects, as well.
You’re most welcome.
Boundaries are just lines on a map.
And, I lost my map. 
Sometimes I have to spit. I just can’t swallow, no matter how hard I try.
I do agree that having something to drink afterwards is a must no matter what you do.
For me it depends so much on the particular man: as has been pointed out, some cum is tastier than others. Lifestyle habits like smoking and meat-eating (to name two that I’ve noticed) make a huge difference. Vegetarians who eat lots of fruit seem to be the best tasting …
But count me in the ‘I swallow because it’s easier for me and nicer for the guy’ camp.
And yes, a nice glass of ice water by the bed never hurts.
A very significant third category has been left out here: ON her face. 
Which, as the guy, is my preference with regard to the spitting/swallowing question.
Just to add to the other ladies comments and my previous, I like to wash it down with another shot of alcohol, you know something strong to take the edge off…
Count me out re the on her face stuff. That is just plain rude to me.
Well, I appreciate the input, but that option was deliberately omitted, not overlooked.
I’ve read that theory, before, but never got it confirmed from firsthand knowledge. Unfortunately, that means I have two strikes against me.
Regardless of the taste? Or, does it depend on the taste?
That’s an ice water for cowgirl, a Coke for Branwen, and how about a double Cuervo Gold Rum and Coke for blue_poop? Coming right up…err…that will just be a minute.
On the face is a bit rough. On my chest, however, is a little different.
::coughs and looks away::
[sub]I can’t believe I just said that. [/sub]
:eek: :eek: :eek:
No! Ick! Sticky! Viscious!
and just out of curiosity, how is that possibly a turn on? I have never understood the ‘money shot’.
FB
Acutally, it’s a little less viscous if the guy’s ad a vasectomy. As I’m just now discovering.
I wonder what a snowball tastes like post-vasectomy…
Thanks Davebear!
Well, although I have not actually had any first hand experience with either spitting or swallowing (despite actually have a girlfriend with whom I have regualr sex with.), I can tell you I would prefer them to swallow. It is kind of offensive if, as soon as I am done, they rush to the bathroom to spit it out.
Now, if I can just convince my GF that giving a blowjob is NOT a bad thing, and then from there we can work on that whole “swallowing” issue.
I swallow. If I like someone enough to put his penis in my mouth I like him (loads?) enough to swallow the you-know-what. The TMI part of it is that there is so much saliva and (if it was down my throat) mucous in my mouth by the time it happens that I don’t even really notice.
I don’t want to be rude but there’s no way I’m going to start a thread just to ask this question. Is all blowjob activity supposed to stop as soon as the guy orgasms or is that one of those ‘every guy is different’ things?
I swallow both because I might as well (The semen’s already in my mouth, and I don’t really mind the taste, so why not?) and because I don’t want to hurt the guy’s feelings by spitting.
It depends on the guy… sometimes they are so sensitive they want you to quit as soon as they cum. I think it’s all a matter of personal preference. Kinda like how some guys love to have their balls given attention and some don’t want you to touch them with a 10 foot pole (don’t even go there )
I don’t understand the money shot either. Never experienced it for that matter… but just don’t get it. I suppose it’s like a pissing contest… so to speak. Go for distance or something… :rolleyes: