Just thought I’d chime in although I’ve never given another man a blowjob (nor myself, though not for lack of trying…). Pricegal sometimes swallows and sometimes spits. When she spits, she does so on me. Why run to the bathroom?
What I’m not getting here is the guys who seem to dislike sperm themselves. And you’re asking your hunka burnin’ love to swallow it? Me, I honestly like it (my own, that is, haven’t tried anyone else’s). I’d like to try giving a blowjob and taking it in the face. I see why straight men wouldn’t like that, but why the squeamishness about your own?
Well, I can’t claim to totally understand it, myself, or to speak for all the guys who object. I don’t actually see it as rejection, but my guess is that guys who do are probably comparing it the memory, or just knowledge, of all the women who DO swallow, and not understanding why this woman won’t do so.
For me, having grown up NOT expecting it, and not experiencing it until I was in my mid-twenties, having a woman swallow feels like a much greater compliment or expression of affection. I realize that, for the younger generation, it has no such meaning, and perhaps doesn’t have ANY meaning, but that’s the mindset I grew up with. I don’t see it as rejection, nor do I (would I, really, since it’s pretty theoretical) object; it just isn’t as special.
One thing I DO object to is stopping all activity at the first sign of orgasm. This usually results in a relatively lousy orgasm, and I’d rather finish up vaginally, instead. There have been exceptions to this, but they’re rare.
No worries dave It’s not nearly as clinical as it sounds on the board but everyone’s relationships function differently. Ours works for us as they always say YMMV
Ya know I never think to prepare ahead and have beverages available in the bedroom! We’ve talked about putting a small fridge in there though so maybe I should restart that chat. Hubby does always offer to go get me something afterwards but this would save him a trip.
(Our bedroom resembles a college dorm room more and more the older we get)
I’ve heard that exact reasoning before, firsthand. I didn’t understand it then, and I still don’t. But, I accept it.
My take on it is, if they’re thinking about egg whites, and worrying that soon they’re going to have a mouthful of them forcibly injected into their mouths, they’re not into what they’re doing, and probably don’t want to be doing it. If that’s the case, they probably shouldn’t do it, IMO. Personally, I have no problem with a woman stopping well before climax, if she’s not comfortable with handling the climax. I prefer to sometimes take it all the way, but I’d rather switch to something else beforehand than have here go catatonic at the crucial moment. Besides, if she isn’t enjoying it, I don’t want to do it, with her.
Umm…I can’t recall any guys saying they tried it and didn’t like it. But, I haven’t read through the entire thread, recently.
I said I was a bit squeamish about the idea of consuming my own fluids, but that’s a bit different. I wasn’t saying the actual substance was disgusting, or even bad tasting. From what little experience I’ve had with the taste all I remember is saltiness, but it’s been a long time. And, I think I’ve been pretty clear about my feelings on the subject of asking a woman to do something she doesn’t want to do.
I missed this, the first time through. One of the great loves of my life, with whom it didn’t work out, also preferred OJ. That was actually the first thing I thought of, when the ladies started asking for beverages, but none of them mentioned it.
In the case of the lady I knew, it wasn’t even related to oral sex, specifically. She just liked OJ after any kind of sex.
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I can hold it in my mouth long enough to finish up, but as soon as I try to swallow my gag reflex starts acting up. I think it would be okay if I couldn’t feel the texture.
I keep tissue by the bed. That way I don’t have to jump and run for the bathroom to get rid of it. I try to keep my back turned so Mr. Branwen doesn’t have to watch, but I think he’s too busy basking in the afterglow to care.
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That would be me, I guess. Sorry, I missed it, the first time through.
I’m not sure I can explain it in rational terms, because I don’t think there’s any rational thought behind it. Something about consuming “my own body”, or the products thereof, just makes me a little uncomfortable. It isn’t just that particular product; I don’t eat the little bits of skin when I bite off a hangnail, either. I can’t tell you where this feeling comes from; it’s just there. When you’re talking about semen, then there’s also the “I’m not a woman, and I’m not gay” reluctance factor added on. In my case, that happens to be a pretty weak factor, but it’s there, to some extent. I’m sure it’s a stronger factor for some men.
I expect someone will come along with the “so, you’re not comfortable with your sexuality” argument, but I don’t buy that. I’m quite comfortable with my sexuality, as it is. That doesn’t mean I have to have any interest in changing it. And, with all that in mind, I would remind folks that I did say I might be willing to give it a try if the right woman asked me in the right way. And, I have to admit, this discussion has made seem less objectionable to me.
Davebear gives the border guards a friendly wave of his paw, as he blows right by the boundaries, once again.
So, have you tried just swallowing as soon as it hits the back of your throat, as some of the other ladies mentioned? I would think that way you wouldn’t have time to notice the texture. Of course, this is purely theoretical, for me. It may not work for everyone.
I think that’s a better solution, for both parties, than running off to the bathroom.
Obviously, you want a girl to swallow. I figure it this way, a guy is LUCKY if I even put my mouth down there in the first place. Most of the guys I’ve been with have been thrilled with the fact of having sex with me that they don’t mind that I don’t want their gizz in my mouth.
I’m blessed with quite a body, and I’m great at having sex, I think blowjobs come in a distant third when you have both of those things going for you. My lovers have been anything but disappointed.
CITE??
You know, proof! We want proof! A nice link to something on the web would be nice…or photographs in a nice, nondescript, discreet plain brown envelope mailed to my address would work…
Personally, I love it when my wife goes down on me, but she has TMJ, so oral sex is a rare treat…and thus, she’s never “finished the act,” although she has assured me that if she ever does, she will definitely swallow…
Now, as to reciprocity…I consider that MANDATORY. Aw, heck, I’ll be honest…I just love giving cunnilingus so much, I don’t really CARE if I get anything back or not…and from what I’ve been told, I’m quite good at it…
If anyone is actually interested, I’ll open a new thread and describe how my mere description of my oral technique got my best friend’s wife so hot and bothered that he agreed to let me go down on HER just to prove it…and then the ladies can make commentary…
It’s not nearly as clinical as it sounds on the board but everyone’s relationships function differently. Ours works for us 
