Sorry for the hijack but, FaerieBeth, you think it’s icky to have it on you but yet you swallow it?!?
But, hey, believe me, if you were my gal I wouldn’t be complaining either way. 
Mrs. TGWATY is in the you’re-not-getting-that-anywhere-near-my-mouth category.
I agree with Faeriebeth about the ick sticky don’t want to be covered in it concept and I do (usually) swallow. The two concepts are completely unrelated!
I like ice cream but don’t wish to be covered in it either. Think of butterscotch syrup for ice cream… Yummy to eat but that stuff would never come out of my hair! Would you really want to be drenched in spaghetti sauce?
So there are lots of things that are icky to have stuck to you but fine to swallow.
I took “icky” to mean revolting, not just uncomfortable. Is your reaction to the thought of syrup in your hair really revulsion? No.
But so she finds something revolting to the touch but is okay with swallowing it. People don’t make sense. Sex doesn’t make sense.
Again, sorry for the hijack. I’ll shut up now. If anyone else wants to do discuss the beauty of the facial cumshot, let me know and we can start a thread. (Especially if you’re female and live near K.C.)
Don’t worry… what I meant is that I would consider this something special, something that I’d want him to know I want to do because I want to make him happy, to please and pleasure him. Not a run of the mill, oh its Friday so you can cum in my face day.
By saying getting major goodies in return, I mean that if there was something I really wanted to do, I’d love him to reciprocate by wanting to do it for me. I didnt mean it as “oh so I’ll do this now you gotta do that - we made a deal”. Its more about wanting to do something for the other person to show that you love them so much - about doing something that you wouldn’t just do with anyone else. Does that make sense?
I wasn’t talking about letting him do that as a way to get something for me - more as a way of showing him how much I care for him and wanting him to want to do something else for me because he cares that much for me.
Saying that, I can’t think of a thing that I’d want that I’d even have to ask for - lets just say he knows all the right buttons to push and is extremely creative lol…
Hope that explains it?
Yes, they exist. I don’t know if it’s actually the taste, in which case swallowing quickly would be the best course, or the texture, or if it’s just psychological. We haven’t gotten much detail from the spitters, here. I didn’t want to question them, because I didn’t want other spitters to feel unwelcome.
Yeah. Basic etiquette for cunnilinguists; wipe before approaching for a kiss. Even on a pillow or sheet. I admit, there have been times I forgot, but I try to remember.
As a formerly bearded man, I can tell you it’s pretty much impossible to wipe the scent out of a beard. That takes soap and water.
Interesting. That’s an attitude I hadn’t considered. One more bit of ignorance vanquished. 
Well, I can’t speak for all guys, but I will say that I certainly don’t mind it. In fact, one time, I even did the multiple orgasm thing when my SO didn’t stop right away… that was pretty cool, both that I could do it, and that she was into it enough to accomadate that long of an, umm, “act” :o
On a side note, am I the only one? No one ever talks about guys being able to do that. Maybe I’m just too 
If my editing is off, let me know, but I’m assuming the last sentence was in regard to the first. My take on the lack of complaints is, no, you never will get a complaint from any guy who has any hope of ever getting you to do it, again. That doesn’t mean they’re not disappointed, though. It’s better than nothing, but it’s a distant third, IMO.
Bahahahahaha…sorry.
The third alternative to “spit or swallow”, of course.
Yes, this I can wholeheartedly agree with. Tanookie’s explanation still sounded a little like a business deal. (Sorry, T.) Maybe this is what she meant.
Ah! TGWATY’s preference. Didn’t make the connection because you were talking about taste. Obviously, you’re referring to the open-mouthed version of a facial.
Yes, I realise that it wasn’t his fault. He did used to offer to go and wash it out (with special beard shampoo, no less!) but I preferred to have him there with a smelly beard than not at all!
As for the coming on your face thing, as I said before, on the only occasion when someone I was with asked me to do it I didn’t think it was particularly icky or scary. I don’t, on the other hand, know whether that was a special case. Or even whether I’m just being naive putting it down to the reasons I gave. But most sexual fixations/desires/fetishes arise for different people for different reasons so I wouldn’t want to condemn any particular practice without experience of it.
Wow, what a thread! I have so many comments I don’t know where to start.
Strike that, yes I do. I want to start by saying thank the creator for my (unfortunately non-doper) girlfriend! She gladly swallows, even to the point of doing the little gargle-and-slurp tricks like they do in the movies. She’s also up for facials as long as I aim clear of the eyes (thanks to an unfortunate incident where we had to go to a club with a group of friends and she had to keep explaining why she had one red eye). She’ll take it pretty much anywhere I wanna put it, and she does a good job pretending that it’s the nectar of the gods. I found her after and exhaustive search during which I encountered the whole range of reactions listed above. I love that girl.
One comment that kept cumming up in the thread was guys who don’t know what their ejaculate tastes like. Now, I didn’t actually pursue this knowledge, but over the years I’ve accidently hit myself in the face may times, and, well, tasting it was unavoidable.
In my opinion, the taste was no problem, it was that stick-in-your throat feeling afterwards that made you feel the need to repeatedly clear your throat. It bothered me, but the //\etallibabe seems to have no problem with it.
And a question for Phraser,
There’s a harness, I believe it’s called a tuxedo harness, that allows you to have two dildos, one in the normal position and one inside you. Supposedly, this gives the wearer some sensation in response to each thrust, I guess to make it more like the real thing, not that that’s necessarily what you’re going for. At any rate, any experience with these? Does it work? Just curious.
With reference to guys tasting their own (and I guess in response somewhat to Dave said about things a guy wants to do for his girl)… my bf tasted his own cos I asked him to. I didnt know he did til later (phone sex I should explain - thats why I wasnt there at the time lol)… he told me in our next call that he knew I thought it would be interesting if he did, so he did.
He wasnt impressed and wont be trying it again in a hurry (though did have the same accident as //\etalhead (sp?) a few times lol)… but I was pretty impressed he tried it. I knew he was squeamish, I knew he never would have tried it had I not mentioned it, I knew he thought it was a bit odd - and I didn’t prompt him or ask him over and over… I just said once have you ever tasted it…
I was impressed with this… lol… hmmmmm says a lot about me I guess 
“Guy who doesn’t mind spitters” checking in here.
I’ve always figured that if i don’t like the idea of having that stuff in my own mouth, then i shouldn’t be offended if my SO isn’t too keen on it either. I should add that my squeamishness regarding the tadpole milkshake is not a product of homophobia or anything - i’ve just always thought that it smells and tastes pretty gross.
I don’t quite understand those guys who see spitting as some some sort of rejection, a sign they are is “unwanted,” to use FaerieBeth’s hubby’s term. I mean, come on people, a willingness to suck your member is a pretty poor indication of rejection in my book. If a woman is willing to give me head until i come, then i figure she can do what she wants with the product.
Bwahahahahah ha ha ha
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Hey! I like guacamole, too, but I’m not going to go around rubbing it all over my face!
FaerieBeth
What the hell. I’ll give you some detail, and you can feel free to question me.
For me, it’s usually more the texture then the taste. Sometimes it’s more like curdled milk then creamy goodness. I can hold it in my mouth, but I just can’t make it go down.
Friend of mine doesnt/cant swallow… she thinks of egg whites and just wants to barf. Believe me, she’d do it if she could, she just cant - she really cant though has tried many many times (wanting to do it for her guy and all that)… she felt terrible about it for a long time until he finally made her understand that whatever she does for him is a good thing.
[Sigh… eleven years and counting :(]
Mrs M. will, once in a very long while, offer a little oral-genital contact, not usually for more than a minute and extremely tentative at that. Sometimes it helps if she is extremely excited on her own account, but not often. She starts gagging if I even begin to leak, never mind having to worry about spitting or swallowing.
For the record, I know what my own stuff tastes like (“tadpole milkshake” ) and, while the first time I tried it as a teenager was a supreme test of courage and endurance, familiarity definitely breeds confidence. I can’t speak for other men’s and I’m never likely to. I don’t say that it’s a taste I’d ever seek out deliberately, but it’s no big deal if, say, I need to clean it off my fingers. A young lady I discussed the subject with once upon a time swore by keeping a glass of OJ by the bed to take the taste away.
[/Sigh… eleven years and counting…]