Stop being so weird about sex (tmi)

Yeah, I thought that was a little odd, too. Obviously if she’s dating you she doesn’t think she’s too good for you. It sounds like she has an issue, but not a stuck up one.

Or she’s “saving” herself for someone she deems more fuckworthy. IAC, a talk is due.

:confused: This isn’t like giving it up in the butt here. Throwing on a lamp or letting me get a nice spank in (I love that ass) isn’t so different from the rest of our sex. And when I’m getting bootycalled, well, just say I think you’re wrong.

It wouldn’t be the first time. Every once in a while one of my insecurities prariedogs above the cubicle wall and shades my opinions.

:smiley: :smiley: :smiley: This SLAYED me.

Me too. :smiley: Kudos.

BTW my brother split up with one of my best friends for this reason. (It’s embarrassing to know about the bedroom antics - or lack thereof - of a good friend and a close family member, but there you go.) After they broke up she became a slut for a few years. It might have been hangups when they were an item, but it wasn’t a problem that ecstacy and alcohol couldn’t cure.

But in Russia, sex has you, tovarisch.

Iiinnnnteresting.

She seems weakly manipulative and selfish to you? Based on what he typed?!? Methinks you’re bringing your own baggage into this situation.

He admits this isn’t a relationship and implies that it is just for sex. He’s thinking of getting with another girl if she’s into him, but can’t be bothered to cut this one loose who sounds like she’s uptight as hell. And she’s the one who is selfish?

Oh ok. Gotcha.

THAT is the funniest thing I’ve read today. You’re not in a relationship, this is just sex. Gee, it sounds like the sex is just fabulous. How hard up are you?

Bah. No, just wrong usage of “stuck up”. No, I just think she was neurotic.

Update!

The girl is gone. I talked to her, but I don’t think I’m personally invested enough in her to tell her why. Tell the truth, there was even more that I didn’t like about her and all those qualities came out last night.

So she’s dumped. I didn’t fully elaborate as to why I didn’t want to see her as anymore as anything but a friend, but the following words may have been used: “hell”, “crazy”, and “as”.

Veni vidi vici.

My bad…It’s been a while since I’ve attended a BDSM club lecture…

I guess I assumed it was “bottoming from the top” since the OP used that term and I heard it used on “The Sopranos.” I’m going to a BDSM party tonight, so I think I’ll try to set myself straight.

I think in this context it’s meant to be Vidi, Vici, Veni.

Gee, I would have told her why she had to go. Then she would have told all her girlfriends you wanted to be more adventurous in bed. Then they would have come looking for you, seeking adventure. :wink:

Please show me where I said the girl was the only one being selfish and manipulative. You won’t have to look far-- you’ve got my entire post quoted there.

Just because I didn’t comment on the OP’s actions doesn’t mean I think he acted nobly. I don’t.

How dare you accuse me of associating with a lady of highest class solely for her posterior to be anything but the noblest of actions. How dare you imply that I, the noble Forumbot, am to lower myself to such base behavior, to reduce my highest of intentions to that of the common unthinking animal which calls himself man.

That you would thing I act with anything other than the highest of enlightened movites is insulting. I challenge you to a duel.

No kidding, eh?

Brilliant! :smiley:

For those of us who only struggled through Greek, and not Latin, could you explain the joke?

thanks!

“Veni, vidi, vici” ~ I came, I saw, I conquered.

“Vidi, vici, veni” ~ I saw, I conquered, I came.

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