I have. Works better in concept than in practice.
No one level would work. Either I’d not hate her enough and strings free sex rules, or I’d hate her enough to give her a Cleveland Steamer (NSFW), and throw dead rats, chicken blood, and a false “you need to get tested” note in the bed, when she fell asleep. It would be the hottest kinkiest sex she ever had, followed by the worst experience of her life, to forever associate the two. The Tao’s Revenge is a dish best served cold.
I guess there could be a window between chica chica bow wow, and scat and dead rats, but it’d be small.
I don’t understand. Why would being way more attractive than you make you not want to have sex with someone? I don’t speak for all men but i would be willing to guess “shes too hot to fuck” has never come anywhere near remotedly close to any guys brain.
Assuming she didn’t do anything scatalogical in front of me, or smell, or have open sores, or somesuch- and I was single- there’s nothing I can think of that would take sex off the table.
Seriously - she could yell “white power!” and club baby seals the whole time.
I’d need to respect and like a person to sleep with her. Someone I was ambivalent about or disliked, no chance.
That’s because most women think “Do I look fat right now?”, or “God, my breasts are sagging”, or somesuch at least once when sleeping with a new guy (and possibly with a non-new guy), and those issues are going to be on your mind even more if your victim/partner has 2% body fat and muscled teeth and so on.
We men don’t have those body issues, even if we’re fat or incredibly hairy or ugly or whatever; once you’ve seen us naked and not run away, we figure it’ll be okay.
Instead, we wonder if you like our signature technique, or if the liquor will catch up with our erection, or whether our roommate will come home while you’re climaxing, or whatever - none of which will be affected by how hot you are.
I’m gonna say this is partialy “age dependant”.
When I was 18-25, I would have hit Nancy Pelosi. Then or now. :eek:
25-32: “Eh, shut up for just a second and let’s get on with it…” Damn near anything (female) with a moist (or moistenable oraface)
33-40: “Well, sure I like you! Its just kinda hot right now! Maybe later…” And if it was Famke Jannsen or ‘whoever was hot back then’, I’d have meant it.
40+ :“Yeah, sure, I still love you. Get me another beer, would ya?”
If I am attracted to her, sex is never off the table.
Any ambivalence is she were cheating? On someone who was a stranger? A friend?
Myself, I’m always a no on dislike grounds. Dumb as a rock, but sweet-natured would be tolerable. Bigoted seal-clubber? Nope :).
ETA: 'course I’m over 40 now, so the testosterone levels may be drying up a bit ;).
Hey now, this is no strings attached. Therefore (that doesn’t look spelled right) cheating is a nonissue.
Ah, yes - I overlooked that bit of the OP. Adultery is an automatic no for me ( morality aside, it is potentially wayyyy too messy ), so that trumps everything else. But you’re right, I’m violating the terms of the hypothetical.
It depends on how much I have to talk to her beforehand. Say she’s a really hot version of Ann Coulter. I don’t mind that she’s evil, I will still give her a good hate-fuck. But if I have to listen her spew her bullshit for, say, fifteen minutes before she lets me stick my cock in her mouth to shut her up, then I just might get sick and walk out.
It’s possible that I’m just crazy, but I found this post alarmingly hilarious.
I am sure the ladies are loving this rare look inside a male’s mind. 
EDIT: I had completely forgotten about The Hate Fuck. Damn, this might invalidate my whole first post.
Given the conditions you pose, there’s nothing a woman could do or say that would make me decline sex. Having sex and feeling “emotional antipathy” are entirely separate things.
Well, OK. I guess if she murdered my whole family I might think twice about it.
See, that’s where you leave a note on the pillow in the morning–“Just FYI, but that guy whose name you were saying last night? He’s a ‘spic’ from Puerto Rico. Neener neener neener! XOXOX, Your Latin Lover”.
Just off the top of my head, I’ll go with killing my mother, setting my house on fire, getting me fired from my job, or cleaning out my bank account.
Although, with enough time passing, I think I could set my feelings aside and muster up the ability to fuck her, if only out of pure hatred.
Now there’s a sex tape that I don’t need to see.
Can I just say that I love that you put the qualifier “whole” in there? Awesome.
My answer? I think the OP has too many preconditions to make it meaningful. I mean, she’s hot, nobody has any commitments, no consequences, you’re stranded on a tropical island covered in tequila bottles, of course no man is going to say no, even if she’s a really awful, terrible, bunny-stewing person. Hell, I’d help Megan Fox kill and bury my cat and make fun of my sister.
So tell us what it would take before you wouldn’t have sex with a completely willing and single female.
EDIT: Or if you’re still incapable of thinking in hypotheticals, give us an example from your life where you did turn down a completely willing and single (or not) female.
1 : Irrelevant when it comes to sex.
2 : Well, it really depends on what the disagreement is about. If it’s something like the blatant racist mentioned earlier, I’ll be too pissed off to think about sex. If she goes on about chakras or how she goes to church every Sunday, I won’t respect her but that’s no barrier to sex.
3 : Not a chance. I wouldn’t even want to be alone with her much less have sex with her; that’s exactly the sort of woman who might decide that it would be entertaining to lie about being raped just to watch me suffer. It’s a matter of needing a bare minimum of trust. Most women aren’t the sort to make up such lies; but someone who’s openly and gleefully malignant like that ? She just might.
4 : I’d hate them AND distrust them. I don’t want to get naked with someone who might decide to graduate from dog killing to murder. Nor would I be in the mood.
We don’t? :dubious: