The teacup is not my cup of tea, either.
These days I barely have enough energy to spoon, let alone teacup.
I do enjoy a nice fork every now and again
Wait till you’re my age and you relish the occasional demitasse spoon. 
Were people wearing masks, with, like, beaks?
Maybe you can afford real chocolate ice cream…
Remember, the password is “Fidelio”. There is no second password. If they ask that, it’s a trick.
I’m glad that you and your spouse enjoyed yourselves. Here’s to the two of you continuing to have a lot of fun while making new friends.
Thanks!
Haha. Please don’t read anything into that. Yes, we both enjoyed ourselves immensely.
What an interesting event. I cannot imagine something like that happening in my city. It’s just too small. You said these things fly under the radar and you have to seek them out, but this sounds like a fairly big event, in a hotel. What is the population of the city where this occurred? How did the hotel bill the event? Was there a signboard (Welcome Springfield Swingers!)? What was the attendance overall? I’m just full of questions.
Was your wheelchair/handicap an issue at all? Were there others there with disabilities? Anyone old enough to use a walker?
Outside of the Fantasy Room, what was the male to female ratio? The people performing in the Fantasy Room behind the sheer curtains – how did they get the gig? Was it all couples? Could others ask to join in? Did you have to sign up for a slot like open mic night? Could the onlookers make suggestions or requests? What was the purpose of the sheer curtains? Was there any expectation of privacy or was it just to segregate the room into pods? Just how big was the Fantasy Room, anyway? What was the racial mix of the participants? Was it an overwhelmingly white middle class affair? Was it all pretty much normal penis in vagina sex? Was there anything more outré like fisting or other large objects or watersports etc? BDSM or such? Were there accessories such as slings, hammocks, restraints and the like?
I’ll probably think of more questions after I get off work, but right now I keep getting interrupted by pesky library patrons.
I can’t imagine anything like this happening so openly in my city. I just don’t know if there’s a large enough population of swingers to fill up a conference room. There might be, though. My job is so public I don’t think there’s any way I could attend something like this without being recognized. That wouldn’t bother me so much except that the nature of my job (children’s librarian) and sexual debauchery might not mix so well. In spite of the ultra-lefty attitude of my city overall, there is quite a prudish, self-righteous element to the place.
The whole thing is very intriguing. I’m not much interested in having sex outside my partner, and I’m not interested in seeing her get porked by some other guy, but the open sexuality and performance/exhibition scene is interesting. Anyway, thanks for entertaining my curiosity.
You mean, teabag?
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So. Many. Possible. Jokes. 
Chasing swing partners through sex dating sites or Craigslist is a lot of work and seldom fruitful for the curious. Better to look into swinger events, attend one and discover how you both REALLY feel about it. Imaginations are seldom linked to reality. My wife and I did this, met a lot of great people that most would never expect to find at such an event and joined the “lifestyle” eleven years ago. Our marriage spans four decades and is stronger then ever but only because of the honesty required to live this particular life. No, it is certainly not for everyone but for those who fit…what fun!
[obligatory zombie sex joke]
Since this has been resurrected, perhaps Ambivalid could tell us whether this has become a recurring thing now (or even an occasional thing).
I think it is only occasional - the towing fees are starting to add up.
Regards,
Shodan