Jayjay, I was responsible for that sig line.
Keep lambasting her, and she’ll move at great speed… ON YOUR HEAD!
…Not really.
I’ve done some thinking, seriously and yeah you’re right, its her body and shes her own person and she can do what she wants its none of my business…and looking back on what I’ve been moaning about myself I can find its routes in jealousy, so I’m just going to act grown up and not put much thought into it.
Thank you all for all of your advice, the crtisicm was good as well, it helped me shape a much better view of the situation 
Ryan…it was obvious that you were really frustrated.
But believe it or not, someday these things that are driving you nuts will hold you in good stead. There IS a breed of woman out there that DOES hold companionship high on their list of priorities, and if you’re patient, it’ll happen for you.
I’m 38, and most of the people I know that are in the happiest relationships were lamenting just like you in their younger days.
And ya know what? Angst is just a distant memory for them.
It will be for you too.
Hang in there. You’ll find the right girl. In the meantime, work on being the right guy. 
Good luck!
Ryan,
Someone in the board pointed me to a website where there is a columnist who he said I sounded like. I read him some and don’t agree with him perfectly but do feel following his advice would help much more than it would hurt. I believe it is Doc Love at askmen.com. Take a look. Been awhile since I looked but I think that is it.
Oh, I get it. So we guys who want monogamous relationships have to wait until all the girls get bored with fucking around with multiple guys, and then want to find one of us to settle down with? And they know we’ll be here waiting for them, because we’re desperate and we’re idiots. But then when do we get to have our fun?
“Oh sorry sweety, I spent the last 10 years having the best and wildest sexual experiences of my life, now I’m just looking for a nice boring relationship.”
And as angry as I sound, I’m probably still gonna be one of the guys who ends up with a girl like that, because as I said, I’m an idiot and I’m desperate.
It does give off a bit of a Kipling vibe, doesn’t it?
An’ it’s Ryan this, an Ryan that, and “I don’t just want to fuck”
But it’s “Liam, I’m fucking others” when I want to get some luck.
Oh for PETE SAKE!!!
WAAAAAAAAAaaaaah.
Sorry, I couldn’t help that first bit. I know you’re just venting your frustration and likely didn’t mean to sound bitter and whiny.
First of all, the following post is NOT just to you, but to all the guys in this, and other similar “nice guy” threads who’ve posted similar sentiments.
Look, not ALL girls are going to go around f**ing everything in sight for their first 10 years after reaching the age of sexual maturity.
Many will believe just as you do. Second, why are you assuming that the fact that many girls DO take the option to be sexually free means that you can’t “have any fun” or that you have to “wait around” until they’re done screwing around??
Also, why are you assuming that girls are thinking of a permanent relationship as being a “nice, boring” relationship? Has it occured to you that they are merely not ready for a relationship and wisely and maturely have chosen to “play the field” (as they said in my day) while they also mature in other ways?? (finishing college, etc).
If you don’t like casual sex, Fine. Seek out girls/woman who share your viewpoint.
I’m not getting the “because they know we’re desparate and idiots” part. WHY are you “desparate”? Are you desparate for sex? Or for the relationship. And why are you “desparate” for either?
Anytime a person gets to that point, that desparation is like a red neon sign to ANYONE of the opposite sex (or same if that’s your orientation) that SCREAMS “Danger, DANGER Will Robinson!!! Depsarate CLINGY, will drive you insane with his/her neediness, Person here”!!!
However, if it’s just that you too would like to have casual sex, then don’t expect anything permanent to come of your encounters with these girls. You can’t have it both ways. (not saying you can’t TRY, but that’s likely to just bring about frustration).
Ryan ma’boy, read this. It will put it all into perspective…
This doesn’t really sound like a great idea IMO.
Kwyjibo! That’s a great link! Finally someone on the web who understands that those bitches won’t fuck me just because I’m a pathetic misogynistic loser!
Sounds like “Leykis 101,” the full 2 semester course instead of the 2 hour Radio show, to me.
Pretty damn pessimistic viewpoint if it’s not just a big whoosh, or envious, bitter, can’t-get-laid-cuz-I’m-an-ugly-boring-clingy-unemployed-bum, crybaby BS.
It would if you were that guy! 
Touché.
CanvasShoes, that site is completely satirical.
Thanks…
I figured it was likely a big ole whoosh, but in this day and age, and given the frequency of “nice guy whines” (not just here, other boards and IRL too), I was kinda wondering.