Ah, crappity.
You know, since nothing else I can say at this point can possibly do a damn bit of good. 
This.
Plus what everyone has said. My prayers go out to your family.
I’m so sorry - I really don’t have the words - you and your family are in my thoughts.
I have just been kicked in the stomach. NotOkay, if there is anything we can do for you, or in Umkay’s memory, please let us know.
My condolences
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I am so sorry for your loss. Umkay was a joy to know here. She certainly brought a great deal of ignorance-fighting into our lives. Many of us are much wiser and nore sensitive to other people’s disabilities for her presence here.
Words fail me, so:
Ugh, how awful! I really enjoyed her spirit.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved sister.
I’m so sorry.
She seemed like a truly remarkable person. This is shocking news. All the best to your family as you deal with this difficult time.
I am so sorry for your loss. May whatever gods there be, be with you and your family during this difficult time.
Crap. I’m so sorry to hear the news, NotOkay. **umkay **had quite a way with words, and showed a great outlook on life.
She made a lot of friends in a short period of time here, and will be missed.
-D/a
I wish I could post better than this, but this covers it.
My condolences; I’m grateful she shared what she did with us.
I am so sorry.
So very sorry to this.
I am shocked and saddened at this news, and wish you and your family strength.
I am so sorry. Words seem inadequate.
I would be interested in donating to a memorial fund or charity of the family’s choice.
Oh no So sad to hear about your loss. That thread was something that is so great about the Dope. Her openness in it was amazing. I will certainly remember it and her.