You knew it was out there, didn’t you?
OK, not that exact one
I’m not going to answer your question directly, as that’s been done very well by others in this thread. However, my #1 rule about this:
- Do not break up with someone because the sex is bad UNLESS you have an available fall-back option. Unless the sex is absolutely terrible, decent sex is better than no sex.
I don’t know why, but that cracked me up.
As for the OP, definitely talk to him about it. Start off positive: “I really love it when you go down on me, is there any reason you haven’t been doing it lately?” This will hopefully avoid putting him on the defensive.
If that doesn’t work, just start flicking his testicles really hard every time you go down on him from now on.
You know, some guys’ taste in women is lousy and then some guys have lousy tasting women. Just sayin’
Any last lingering slivers of heterosexuality I might have had have been obliterated by this thread.
Now where did I put that brain bleach…
Sure. Advice from a guy with a prehensil tongue.
No, of course not - break out the whip and train 'em right.
I don’t believe it’s possible for a happy, solid couple who are comfortable with each other to have an absolutely horrible sex life. That’s the sort of thing you’re supposed to work at together, to make sure everyone’s happy with what’s going on. If the sex is bad, it can be improved, but you need to be able to discuss it. If you’re not happy, and you don’t speak up, then it’s just going to get worse.
I’ll go down on a girl lickety-split!
You need to talk to him, but also be prepared if the answer isn’t something you want to hear and have suggestions ready.
for example -
If he doesn’t like the smell - offer to shower first, but don’t be all hurt about it
One small tip - some things you can eat make it taste better/worse.
I have always had great results with grapes, ymmv
I am so Fuckin’ - A lucky!
But yeah, what they said. Talk about it. Don’t dump the poor guy until he’s had a fair chance to rectify the situation. Especailly because you sound super young, and a learning experience might just be what the doctor ordered.
A nice night drinking wine and sitting outside together does the trick sometimes.
Jeez, he won’t even do cunnilinugs and now you’re hoping for analingus??
I so have to meet you someday.
And really sore testicles…
Just shove his head down there, and if he doesn’t get the idea, then dump him.
Yes. Then come find me.
Would we all be reacting the same way if a guy was complaining about his girlfriend?
Interesting question!
Carry on.
I actually thought about this, and my conclusion was I would say the same thing, as long as it’s not actually forceful.
As the OP said, it can be hard to communicate your needs verbally without some kind of consequences (depending on the people involved), whereas physical communication feels more natural.
I think this has been a fine thread - good advice, presented in an interesting way.
This sent shivers down my … spine.
Anytime! …err unless I’m teaching :eek:
Maybe physical communication is more “natural”, but if anyone starts trying to push my head downwards, no matter how gently, I will be insulted.
Tell me what you want, or show by example, but don’t you be pushing my face into your crotch.